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Small Penis or Huge Vagina?
molbjerg:
There's many factors which conspire to make you 'love' someone, all playing out on a subconcious level. Do you like their smell, their hair, respect their intelligence, philosophies, breasts, hobbies, attitude, arse etc.
These are a set of semi-rational desires for characteristics your chosen mate will exhibit. You might have 'loved' someone, but because they didn't fit your criteria (such as taste in music) you might never click off as well as you would have. This is because on some level you rationally decided that someone you share your life with should have good taste in music, so you don't have to listen to rubbish all the time.
The same could be said about penis size, it's just another rational quantifier that plays into the 'love package', if you could choose to be in love with someone with a body that makes you happy, or someone who doesn't - what will people choose?
Then, there is the issue that there is not just one person that you could ever love out there, and you have to accept their cocksize because that's the end of that chapter. You can find someone else who fulfills more of your criteria and then love them instead, which is an even better scenario.
Sakura90:
Yeah, it's like you say. But there are also "priorities". For example I'd prefer to be with someone that has the same tastes as me in anime and music (I'd love to watch romance anime or doing j-pop karaokes with my boyfriend) than to be with someone with a huge cock. If I find someone who likes Japanese stuff (among other characteristics) and has a huge cock it would be great but, at least for me, it's nearly impossible to find my "ideal" partner, so it's better to prioritize the things you want most. Also, I don't care much about the physical appearance, if he has a normal body and look it's fine with me, I care a lot more about the personality (to be romantic, lovely, do cute things, etc).
molbjerg:
Ah-hah.
It seems to me like your seeking the wrong qualities in a man. It's easy at the beginning to think: "If they like the same stuff as me it'll be great" but in fact it just makes life more stale. You're only exposed to one set of 'stuff'. Hobbies aren't something that need to be shared, it's something that you would like to share a bit.
What is most important, is the PERSON, not their tastes, and how they make you feel etc. Limiting yourself to someone who likes romance Anime is like a boy limiting themselves to girls who like star trek. And for what reason? So they can lie on the sofa and watch star trek together....
You said it would be nice if you could find a guy that likes anime AND has a big cock - well, I put it to you that the size of his cock would be more relevent to you than a bit of anime. At least it should be.
Sakura90:
--- Quote from: molbjerg on November 12, 2009, 04:20:19 PM ---Ah-hah.
It seems to me like your seeking the wrong qualities in a man. It's easy at the beginning to think: "If they like the same stuff as me it'll be great" but in fact it just makes life more stale. You're only exposed to one set of 'stuff'. Hobbies aren't something that need to be shared, it's something that you would like to share a bit.
What is most important, is the PERSON, not their tastes, and how they make you feel etc. Limiting yourself to someone who likes romance Anime is like a boy limiting themselves to girls who like star trek. And for what reason? So they can lie on the sofa and watch star trek together....
You said it would be nice if you could find a guy that likes anime AND has a big cock - well, I put it to you that the size of his cock would be more relevent to you than a bit of anime. At least it should be.
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Anime was an example of some thing I like him to like. More than that the taste in music is very important for me, and even more, the personality. I'm very calm and quiet myself and I like doing simple but cute things very gently to show feelings and love. If someone was to make me feel good and loved, he would need to have a personality simliar than mine. I won't feel well with someone noisy and not vary caring for example. If he likes anime it would be like a "plus", the way of being and the way of doing things is what I care the most ^^
Carnivus:
Hmm,a cute girl with anime interests that isn t shy,not too stupid or too geeky,loyal,kind,smart,sweet,slim,but not feather like and that s about all.
Well at least those are my preferences I guess.Hard to find though.
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