To all the men: younger, same age or older women?

[dankles]

Coming from a guy with no experience whatsoever (sad, I know) I guess I'd have to say I'd prefer same age or a little younger. A little older would be alright too, but much older would be kinda weird (a guy that's 20 going out with a chick that's almost 30? o_O), not to mentioned it'd have the side effect of them aging more quickly than you.

Awwh come on its not weird. It's all in your head. I was 19 and went on a small date with a 29 year old co-worker once. It was lots of fun!
This past summer I went on vacation with a different 29 year old girl and I was 21 at the time.

EDIT:
as always it looks like I'm the odd ball of the group being the only one to pick "much older"  :'(

[mgz]

i think rather then ask about age difference, ask about age brackets, because i think you will find more telling answers. Depending on what your looking for,
Because then it takes the issue of the mans age out.


And on a seperate note, comparing the likes of a kate beckinsale to your average mid 30s woman is pretty unfair, because im quite confident most mid 30s women would fall a bit short on the kind of care she can afford for herself both financially and in respect of time.

Where as you average 20-25 year old woman in the entertainment business can very likely be replicated by someone of the exact same age bracket as the ability to take proper care of themselves takes a much smaller part in their appearance and overall attractiveness both mentally and physically

[dankles]

i think rather then ask about age difference, ask about age brackets, because i think you will find more telling answers. Depending on what your looking for,
Because then it takes the issue of the mans age out.

mmmmm nah I was looking for relative answers regardless of the mans age. Age brackets wouldn't tell if the man likes old or younger.

And on a seperate note, comparing the likes of a kate beckinsale to your average mid 30s woman is pretty unfair, because im quite confident most mid 30s women would fall a bit short on the kind of care she can afford for herself both financially and in respect of time.

Where as you average 20-25 year old woman in the entertainment business can very likely be replicated by someone of the exact same age bracket as the ability to take proper care of themselves takes a much smaller part in their appearance and overall attractiveness both mentally and physically

No, I've seen plenty of beautiful older women 30+
EDIT
50+ .... not so much lol

[mgz]

you see plenty of lower 30s but your also mainly remembering the decent looking ones, think of the % of mediocrity to trainwrecks you see and think about what their average age would be and then compare that to women in Hollywood, the statistics are staggeringly one sided due to the nature of the business in hollywood.

and while age brackets wouldnt indicate preference of older or younger, i think the point isnt that men have a distinct preference of older or younger but most men have a prefered age bracket that stays about the same for large periods of time during their lives on shifts gradually one way or another

[dankles]

you see plenty of lower 30s but your also mainly remembering the decent looking ones, think of the % of mediocrity to trainwrecks you see and think about what their average age would be and then compare that to women in Hollywood, the statistics are staggeringly one sided due to the nature of the business in hollywood.

and while age brackets wouldnt indicate preference of older or younger, i think the point isnt that men have a distinct preference of older or younger but most men have a prefered age bracket that stays about the same for large periods of time during their lives on shifts gradually one way or another

I do agree that it would be an interesting poll. I guess I'm only seeing things through my eyes...

[Aneroph]

You guys complain too much. Just have fun on the poll.

I have to say Dankles, if finding out that a girl is 1000 years old in a movie turns you on more, then I am a little afraid.

[dankles]

You guys complain too much. Just have fun on the poll.

I have to say Dankles, if finding out that a girl is 1000 years old in a movie turns you on more, then I am a little afraid.

Hell yeah! Super sexy ninja gods are hawt!

[fuentefox]

For random play I'm going to have to say my age-ish or younger, for real companionship I'd say that true age doesn't matter so much as mental age (so long as they're of an age where I don't end up going to jail), I tend to be the "old soul" type so I find that the most attractive women for me are those with personality, but then again I am also a superficial shallow ass, so without the looks/body to match most chicks don't make it past the visual screening process.

In the end I guess this is all irrelevant as I am really looking forward to being a "trophy" husband, yea that's right, I'm going cougar hunting. I hope one day that I am remembered as the male Anna Nicole Smith, only not annoying and a complete waste of space. I hope to find a rich elderly lady to shower me with material things and when she dies I inherit $200M (USD), then years later someone finds me dead in a horel room in Aruba, the news goes crazy for about a month until people remember that I really wasn't that important and I am forgotten.

[Aglaea]

When it comes to girls I am all about the young ones.  Like barely legal young (18-21).  The ones that still have the naivety that older women who have been around loose.  They are all cute and shy about things and they blush when you whisper naughty things in their ear.  I could care less about experience in the bedroom when it comes to girls since I prefer to take the lead.  There is something great about doing things you know they have never done before and really give something to remember.

It kind of funny though, with men I am the total opposite.  I like guys in their mid 30s to mid 40s.  They have more stories to tell and are usually way more interesting.  That and they tend to be way better in bed and really like to take control.  That, and their dirty talk is way better.  They can actually make me blush.

[LiquidZero]

im in high school, sophomore to be junior after the summer. 16 years of age, 17 june 4th.
i prefer same age or older. even though as time goes by the more voluptuous girls are getting at a younger age. its a little crazy in fact.
i remember in 7th grade i knew 2 girls with DDs. 8th grade maybe around 5 er 6. highschool more. but now im looking to see what freshman to middle schoolers look like now and its crazy! but i still like girls around my age simply because there more matured and have a good sense of "high school is the only time we can hit and not have to go into a long relationship" type thing. though right now i think i'd much rather have a girl friend then just "better then friends".

this is MY OPINION. i also never understood the guys who were seniors (18/19) who went out with freshman girls? i always think if you cant get a girl your own age or older then you must not be on the right level.

[mgz]

im in high school, sophomore to be junior after the summer. 16 years of age, 17 june 4th.
i prefer same age or older. even though as time goes by the more voluptuous girls are getting at a younger age. its a little crazy in fact.
i remember in 7th grade i knew 2 girls with DDs. 8th grade maybe around 5 er 6. highschool more. but now im looking to see what freshman to middle schoolers look like now and its crazy! but i still like girls around my age simply because there more matured and have a good sense of "high school is the only time we can hit and not have to go into a long relationship" type thing. though right now i think i'd much rather have a girl friend then just "better then friends".

this is MY OPINION. i also never understood the guys who were seniors (18/19) who went out with freshman girls? i always think if you cant get a girl your own age or older then you must not be on the right level.

Seniors dating freshman is really simple to explain,
Freshman girl much more willing to do things because they are impressed that its a senior thats interested in them
As dumb of a thought process as it is, its true

[Xiong Chiamiov]

As far as cuteness goes, I tend to like the 17-22-ish range, which happens to be my age right now.  I find that the girls I actually like, however, tend to be older than me by a few years, because they're a bit more mature.

as always it looks like I'm the odd ball of the group being the only one to pick "much older"  :'(

You're on an *anime* forum.

[queenmetroid]

How about you add another poll about how many people here have had actual girlfriends for more than 10 minutes? I always shrug when I hear 16 year olds talking about what type of female they prefer. In my experience, most younger people who are into anime or obsessed with porn are usually have some sort of unrequited love or are unable to get a girlfriend, so they fantasize about it. I'm not talking about the older members of this forum, I'm sure they are speaking from experience, but I've found that the people who talk most about who they like are too shy to actually have a relationship or don't know what they are talking about.

Oh, and I prefer females my own age.

Not that my opinion matters, though. (Sorry if I offended anyone.)

[dankles]

As far as cuteness goes, I tend to like the 17-22-ish range, which happens to be my age right now.  I find that the girls I actually like, however, tend to be older than me by a few years, because they're a bit more mature.

as always it looks like I'm the odd ball of the group being the only one to pick "much older"  :'(

You're on an *anime* forum.

I'm the oddball amongst oddballs  :'(

[Morgia]

When it comes to girls I am all about the young ones.  Like barely legal young (18-21).  The ones that still have the naivety that older women who have been around loose.  They are all cute and shy about things and they blush when you whisper naughty things in their ear.  I could care less about experience in the bedroom when it comes to girls since I prefer to take the lead.  There is something great about doing things you know they have never done before and really give something to remember.

...and you really think you could teach girls around 18-21 things they haven't done before? Wow... it's interesting there are still naive men around ... ^^
(psst... about the blushing stuff: I can still do that on command )

Ah for the record: I usually like girls around my age or a bit younger that don't have their biological clock ticking really loud in the background. At some point in their lives women just long for stability and a family... and nope...I won't consider havin affairs with elder women who already have that, since I don't want to break into a relationship of some kind - just makes things complicated

[LordKusanagi]

true they are all good just as long as they treat you right

[LiquidZero]

How about you add another poll about how many people here have had actual girlfriends for more than 10 minutes? I always shrug when I hear 16 year olds talking about what type of female they prefer. In my experience, most younger people who are into anime or obsessed with porn are usually have some sort of unrequited love or are unable to get a girlfriend, so they fantasize about it. I'm not talking about the older members of this forum, I'm sure they are speaking from experience, but I've found that the people who talk most about who they like are too shy to actually have a relationship or don't know what they are talking about.

Oh, and I prefer females my own age.

Not that my opinion matters, though. (Sorry if I offended anyone.)

i understand what you mean, most of the time it would be just a shrug since most people who are really into anime tend to have a stereo-typical otaku* look which probably wouldnt attract the oposite sex but (in case this was directed towards me) im not into just anime. theres a multitude of things that i get into and participate in. there is a few people (although seldom it may be) who are into anime but also play sports and are very sociable to other people in different things. also by just looking at me you probably couldnt guess i was into anime. you'd probably think i played basketball or ran track. times are changing more people are getting into different things.

[NaRu]

When I was dating Nikki she was 4 years younger then me. The girl Im dating now (Jackie but its not official yet) she is only a year younger then me. I have only one rule. The girl has to be shorter then me. Thats it

[dankles]

When I was dating Nikki she was 4 years younger then me. The girl Im dating now (Jackie but its not official yet) she is only a year younger then me. I have only one rule. The girl has to be shorter then me. Thats it

My only rule is that the girl can't be able to beat me up.
Like this:

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And yes, I do date quite a lot. Though I'm not really into relationships ATM (not meaning I've never been in one...) cuz I'm sorta scared of commitment for some reason (wasn't always that way).

EDIT: O yeah, It's really hard to get much older women to commit to relationships lol (I'm the one and only guy on the poll that posted "much older") So that could be part of the problem. Though really easy to casually date.

[vuzedome]

So besides me, who's the other who voted for much younger?