l'm affraid Boror is quite corect in his statements, girls won't tell their story to someone who can't listen well, it's rare for a guy to listen, and about this kind of stuff the ytend to stay away from girls, my current girlfriend went through some problems and l helped her solve the most of them, l dunno how she wil lfurther develop herself but l'm probably just like Boror, girls do open to me rather often, l think it's about some sort of aura and atmosphere of someone who wil llisten but will not pity you that they think about me and l usually end up giving hints to what to do, which end up being quite hard solutions but they work most of the time, otherwise no change or just small change, but when you do meet such a girl do not ever pity her, they hate that, they don't seek consolation but protection and help, pitying them only hurts them more.
in Myself;Yourself one of those girls in a perfect example, hell even in Clannad there is one, or maybe two (havent played the game yet)
the worst thing you can do is pity them, they pitied themselves for a long time they don;t need anyone else to do that.
12% .... hmmm l don't think it's high at all, actually it could be even too low in some areas,
80% rapes aren't even reported out of shame, if not more, abuse and violence is most often but girls that go through such things tend to grow stronger unless the break, if so thats the end of them usually.
l could go on with this but l'm starting to feel sad so l'll stop here.