exFAT was put into Vista and 7 only because NTFS rapes the ever living fuck out of Solid State Drives.
If it's not an SSD or flashdrive use NTFS.
One serious reason to buy an SSD would be to install the operating system on it and anything other than NTFS for windows would probably not be meaningful. Are you certain?
Is it something to do with TRIM support?
[edit] now that I think of it, you should not be able to install windows on a non-NTFS volume
[edit]Looked it up, Windows can only be installed to NTFS. It's recommended you turn on write caching and turn off last access.
I see, that explains why it can kill an SSD.
I have had the "last accessed" thing of XP disabled some time ago thru the registry. It has a performance impact on spindle drives as well.
Thanks for the clarification.