Author Topic: Romance: Which will you choose? (Read 6260 times)

DLTE · « **on:** September 12, 2010, 07:29:47 PM »

The girl who wants you

or

The girl whom you want?

Which one would you choose and why?

Soryon · « **Reply #1 on:** September 12, 2010, 07:40:27 PM »

Well, I'm kinda the ~~great~~ greedy type, fucking auto complete on the cell phone sucks. (i am great tho!) so I'd pick the second.

And if it's the girl who wants you, but the feelings are one sided then it would amount to a relationship out of pity, of which little good can come. I guess that goes both ways tho. If it's not mutual it's gonna suck either way.

Lutador · « **Reply #2 on:** September 12, 2010, 07:52:22 PM »

If i had a the slightest amount of feelings for the girl whom wanted me, I would go for her. Knowing that it could evolve into something fantastic.

If I did`nt like her one bit, then the answer is fairly obvious.

JoonasTo · « **Reply #3 on:** September 12, 2010, 08:02:46 PM »

Are we talking light romance or serious lifetime commitment?

1000mAh · « **Reply #4 on:** September 12, 2010, 08:07:13 PM »

depends, I will take the girl whom I want if possible (it is as long as she isn't someone over beautiful)
and also if the girl who wants me is one or multiple of these I wont accept her:
Fat
Havier than me
Longer than me
has ugly face
uses too 'too much' make up (from my opinion)
hates anime and/or manga
is over 30cm shorter than me
bossy
Hair is shorter than shoulder lenght
can't cook (ofcourse I can cook!)
isn't too greedy about money
isn't flat-chested, at least B-cup
...you know this list could be soo long... I stop here those are most of the most important things (not all)

xne3kx · « **Reply #5 on:** September 12, 2010, 10:06:31 PM »

Considering I've chosen 'girl who wants me' but not necessarily who I want (I wanted her, but just to try and lose my virginity, that's about it), it was like Soryon said:

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And if it's the girl who wants you, but the feelings are one sided then it would amount to a relationship out of pity, of which little good can come.

That was a lesson to be learned for myself.

So, these days, I would rather choose the girl who I want. I think in that scenario you have more to lose because you might have more feeling(s) invested and for me, that is what I should try to get in to because it's not so safe but has greater possible rewards but also greater possible disappointments. I don't have a lot of experience in this area so my judgement is flawed to begin with but this is what I am thinking right now. There is this cute little asian chick who I work with and I have the hots for her so I am going to see if I can get anywhere with her. That's it.

BrownMasterV · « **Reply #6 on:** September 12, 2010, 10:57:45 PM »

This reminds me of 5cm per second. Now I'm all choked up :'(

Hmm...If I didn't DISlike the girl who wants me, and found her at least a little attractive, I'd go for her, but only if my chances of getting with the girl I want are too slim.
Going for the girl I want would probably just make the other girl feel like shit, and I'm too nice a person to do that to her.
Getting rejected and going back to this chick would be even worse, because she'd forever feel like she's the "second choice."

Then again, no girl wants me, and I haven't really found a girl that I want yet ;-;
FFffuuu I'm a ronery panda.

Superchunk55 · « **Reply #7 on:** September 12, 2010, 11:13:19 PM »

Well in this situation i would the girl I want because the girl who wants me is my ex-girlfriend and she is currently phone stalking me right know which is really creepy but at least she doesn't know where i live.

TMRNetShark · « **Reply #8 on:** September 13, 2010, 12:26:46 AM »

Load up a few dozen Seige Tanks and blow her up like she was the Queen of Blades....

Oh wait... wrong topic?

A girl who wants me is ten times better than a girl who only I like. Reason being, a girl I like IS a girl who likes me. If you are a perfect 10/10 and you don't like me, then you might as well be a 1/10 in my book. BUT, if you are say... a 6, or 7, or 8, or 9 out of 10 and you like me, you will instantly be bumped up two ranks. See the logic?

Obviously, if the girl has a terrible personality and is a complete bitch, why the hell would I go for her if she liked me?

vuzedome · « **Reply #9 on:** September 13, 2010, 02:28:42 AM »

I'll make the girl whom I want and turn her into the girl who wants me.

xfreidax · « **Reply #10 on:** September 13, 2010, 03:36:59 AM »

Take the girl who wants you and keep chasing the one you want...

Soryon · « **Reply #11 on:** September 13, 2010, 04:22:02 AM »

Quote from: xfreidax on September 13, 2010, 03:36:59 AM

Take the girl who wants you and keep chasing the one you want...

fuck that.
If that took place in an anime, I would surely rage.

DLTE · « **Reply #12 on:** September 13, 2010, 04:23:44 AM »

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Take the girl who wants you and keep chasing the one you want...

Thats a player right there.

BrownMasterV · « **Reply #13 on:** September 13, 2010, 04:26:40 AM »

Quote from: Soryon on September 13, 2010, 04:22:02 AM

Quote from: xfreidax on September 13, 2010, 03:36:59 AM
Take the girl who wants you and keep chasing the one you want...
fuck that.
If that took place in an anime, I would surely rage.

Ain't you glad there has never been an anime with such a plot?

NaRu · « **Reply #14 on:** September 13, 2010, 04:41:32 AM »

it all depends on how I feel about the girl who wants me. I need to have feelings for her to be with her. Its that simple. If I didn't have any feelings for her then I wont waste my time with her.

1000mAh · « **Reply #15 on:** September 13, 2010, 05:41:13 AM »

Quote from: BrownMasterV on September 13, 2010, 04:26:40 AM

Quote from: Soryon on September 13, 2010, 04:22:02 AM
Quote from: xfreidax on September 13, 2010, 03:36:59 AM
Take the girl who wants you and keep chasing the one you want...
fuck that.
If that took place in an anime, I would surely rage.

Ain't you glad there has never been an anime with such a plot?

do you want to lock your anwser?

deathman · « **Reply #16 on:** September 13, 2010, 04:06:37 PM »

Depends on how beautiful the girls actually are...of course the girl who likes me is not beautiful because if she was i would like HER and not girl i like who happens to be pretty .....unless the girl who likes me is pretty and just does not admit that she likes me(this has happened to me once with a girl that completely disliked my beliefes but was intrigued with my personality aswell....)

Havoc10K · « **Reply #17 on:** September 13, 2010, 05:17:56 PM »

sometimes what you want is not what you need, I would have to think really hard before making a choice, everything would depend on their looks and personalities, a totally dumb hottie is not for me, but an ugly smart ass isn't either, all things considered, I would choose a girl with good looks and fair intellect, dumb bitch would not necessarily understand my commands and a smart ass would have enough brain to rebel/jk.

if both wouldn't meet the requirements I would ignore them and get beheaded most likely

unless I would move out fast XD

1000mAh · « **Reply #18 on:** September 13, 2010, 05:29:22 PM »

Quote from: Havoc10K on September 13, 2010, 05:17:56 PM

sometimes what you want is not what you need, I would have to think really hard before making a choice, everything would depend on their looks and personalities, a totally dumb hottie is not for me, but an ugly smart ass isn't either, all things considered, I would choose a girl with good looks and fair intellect, dumb bitch would not necessarily understand my commands and a smart ass would have enough brain to rebel/jk.

if both wouldn't meet the requirements I would ignore them and get beheaded most likely
unless I would move out fast XD

So you don't want to end like Makoto?

Havoc10K · « **Reply #19 on:** September 13, 2010, 06:00:37 PM »

if I really did make her pregnant I would rather stay alive, but if I died, i would at least leave something behind me