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Romance: Which will you choose?

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xne3kx:
Considering I've chosen 'girl who wants me' but not necessarily who I want (I wanted her, but just to try and lose my virginity, that's about it), it was like Soryon said:


--- Quote ---And if it's the girl who wants you, but the feelings are one sided then it would amount to a relationship out of pity, of which little good can come.
--- End quote ---

That was a lesson to be learned for myself.

So, these days, I would rather choose the girl who I want. I think in that scenario you have more to lose because you might have more feeling(s) invested and for me, that is what I should try to get in to because it's not so safe but has greater possible rewards but also greater possible disappointments. I don't have a lot of experience in this area so my judgement is flawed to begin with but this is what I am thinking right now. There is this cute little asian chick who I work with and I have the hots for her so I am going to see if I can get anywhere with her. That's it.

BrownMasterV:
This reminds me of 5cm per second. Now I'm all choked up  :'(

Hmm...If I didn't DISlike the girl who wants me, and found her at least a little attractive, I'd go for her, but only if my chances of getting with the girl I want are too slim.
Going for the girl I want would probably just make the other girl feel like shit, and I'm too nice a person to do that to her.
Getting rejected and going back to this chick would be even worse, because she'd forever feel like she's the "second choice."

Then again, no girl wants me, and I haven't really found a girl that I want yet ;-;
FFffuuu I'm a ronery panda.

Superchunk55:
Well in this situation i would the girl I want because the girl who wants me is my ex-girlfriend and she is currently phone stalking me right know which is really creepy but at least she doesn't know where i live.

TMRNetShark:
Load up a few dozen Seige Tanks and blow her up like she was the Queen of Blades....







Oh wait... wrong topic?



A girl who wants me is ten times better than a girl who only I like. Reason being, a girl I like IS a girl who likes me. If you are a perfect 10/10 and you don't like me, then you might as well be a 1/10 in my book. BUT, if you are say... a 6, or 7, or 8, or 9 out of 10 and you like me, you will instantly be bumped up two ranks. See the logic?

Obviously, if the girl has a terrible personality and is a complete bitch, why the hell would I go for her if she liked me?

vuzedome:
I'll make the girl whom I want and turn her into the girl who wants me.

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