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Offline TMRNetShark

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Importance?
« on: November 18, 2010, 04:03:06 AM »
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But anyways, the real point of this topic. What do you guys and gals think about importance of yourself? Do you believe that you are important to someone else? Do you believe that you are important to people outside your own family? Do you believe that if you were to disappear tomorrow, would you leave something behind to be remembered? Or forgotten in the sands of time?

I mean it seriously! I personally think I am important to a select few of my friends... sadly, I'm not important to any ladies, but I'm not 21 yet and can't get into any bars to find ladies... but I'm sure most of you have people that think you're important! So I wanna hear it... who thinks you're important in their lives and why do you think that? I'm important because I provide awkward entertainment in the form of diffusing (real) awkward situations and make them into funny awkward. EX: My friend is flirting with a girl, but the girl has a boyfriend who then starts coming over to beat my friend up.... (this is where I come in) I distract said boyfriend by "accidentally" running into him... then I start bullshitting the guy while I make the signal for my friend to make his getaway with the chick. By the time he realizes what happens, my wing man is long gone and that's when I run as well. You know what I get out of it? Free f***ing food and a couch to sleep on after a long friday night of partying in the city.

So the question goes to you all... Importance... how are you important to someone else in the world?

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Re: Importance?
« Reply #1 on: November 18, 2010, 05:02:21 AM »
I'm #197 when ranked by ratio :P
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Re: Importance?
« Reply #2 on: November 18, 2010, 05:18:16 AM »
I'm not important to anyone.  I've got a decent ratio here, but not very much actual UL. 


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Re: Importance?
« Reply #3 on: November 18, 2010, 06:10:34 AM »
I love how the first 2 people went straight for the ratio. >_> May want to read the rest guys...

I think I am important to a lot of people. I am not very outgoing in talking to randoms and that (I often end up looking kinda crass) however most people that I know to any great degree think of me highly probably due to the fact that I have a desire to make people around me happy. I suppose its a nice little thing for making them rage at me for different things as well. :P

If I am a friend then you will love me... well I hope you don't hate me at least. Otherwise I am just average. No lady friend at the moment although being Aussie I can actually go into bars and that myself already at 18. As I said though I am not that outgoing so. I do know a few ladies that find me very important though.... that sounds a lot seedier than what it was meant to.

I think if I were to go quite a few people would be sad but I also wonder myself just how many. I don't think I would leave anything great behind except friendship perhaps. Well... 3TB of anime is kinda important. :3

Basically. Yes I am important to people and to people outside my family. I don't think I would leave behind anything great though except many holes in hearts.

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Re: Importance?
« Reply #4 on: November 18, 2010, 06:14:18 AM »
I'm not very important.

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Re: Importance?
« Reply #5 on: November 18, 2010, 06:18:25 AM »
I'm probably less important than I consider myself.
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Re: Importance?
« Reply #6 on: November 18, 2010, 06:23:33 AM »
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I've pulled a couple of people out of the water, once in the ocean and two guys who dumped their canoe in a pretty harsh bit of river, and seems they would have drowned if I hadn't.

Twice I spotted houses that had just caught fire and I helped get people out of those, saved a cat in one, and helped fight the fire until the fire department came.  Probably saved most of the house.

Three times I've been in cities hit by hurricanes.  If you've ever been through something like that, you work 25 hours a day for about six weeks, then sleep for a month.  After that, it's tough to remember exactly what you did, but you know it made some difference.

I've been at several auto accidents where we had to perform first aid on seriously injured people.  Don't know if it saved their lives or not, but might have.  One guy wrecked a motorcycle in front of me & I know I did several things to keep his injuries under control, probably saved his life (HINT: don't try to move or walk after flying into a car at 50 or 60 mph; wait for the paramedics to tell you you're OK.  Or not.).

Probably have talked 30 or 40 drunk people out of driving their car; God knows how many lives that saved.

Carried a damn fool friend out of a graveyard and drove him to the emergency room after he pulled a gravestone over on himself.  I mean, like a ten foot high, two ton chunk of marble.  Don't try to climb old grave stones; it can end badly.

There's a few more incidents like that over the past 30 years.

I was a university teacher for six years, about 500 students per semester with about a half dozen being special needs (blind, autistic, paraplegic, ADD, etc.).  I like to think I was good, I took it very seriously.  And, there were a lot students that I helped with Life Issues, like recovering from rape or dealing with divorce.  Seems you can't go two weeks without something like that coming up, in addition to developing and teaching a curriculum.

The thing is, if you keep yourself in halfway good shape (physically and mentally), learn some basic first aid, I also certified in HAZMAT, Open Water SCUBA and Advanced Open Water Lifesaving ... well, and generally lead a fairly active life like working construction and doing a bit of caving and mountain climbing, etc. ...

During the course of your life, you'll be right there at the moment when it keeps someone else alive.  Probably more than once.  And, someone will be there to pull you out from in front of a train once or twice, too.  Don't think I'm here to type this up because I'm so skilled & smart as to keep myself alive.  If there were a Just God in this Universe, I'd have never lived past about 21 or 23.

Pretty cool how that pays itself forward.  There's a good few people who have been pretty important to me, also.
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Re: Importance?
« Reply #7 on: November 18, 2010, 10:16:59 AM »
I know I can easily be replaced.  :P
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Re: Importance?
« Reply #8 on: November 18, 2010, 10:39:48 AM »
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Re: Importance?
« Reply #9 on: November 18, 2010, 04:19:16 PM »
Importance is subjective. How many people would miss me, how many people would miss what I do for them? I think the latter would boast larger numbers.

Outside of family I have maybe 3 people who would truly miss me, the rest would just be like "Oh damn, Aaron died" and probably forget about it a week or 2 later.
What will I leave behind? Certainly nothing on a worldly scale, only possessions. When all is said and done, it doesn't bother me one way or the other because I wont be around to worry about it when that day comes.

As far as seeding, well on a site like BBT my existence is almost nil as we have immense numbers of full time seeders already. I still do my best to contribute anyway but unfortunately I cant use my business line for seeding anymore. Still my home line is decent.

I think the best word to describe my overall importance is: "meh"

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Re: Importance?
« Reply #10 on: November 18, 2010, 06:11:41 PM »
Well, me Best Friend would have no Life if I wouldn't be his friend, well, I've known hime for 6 years (yeah the sime time I've been watching anime <.<) Because I'm his only friend :P
So I think I'm important .P HE would be fat by now otherwise :P

WEll, that is prolly all, I've got some friends, (most of them women...) but yeah, I'm not 'important' to any of them :P WEll, their life would be boring without me saying my bit stupid and funny coments, etc.

Also, my 2nd best friends tells me awfully loyt of things :P So I think I'm important in there too :P
Because, most of his other friends aren't on the same level with him.

SO no, I'm not so important.

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Re: Importance?
« Reply #11 on: November 18, 2010, 07:54:36 PM »
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But in all seriousness, minimal importance. My section of the family has been estranged from most, and it wasn't a particularly large extended family to begin with. I expect maybe half a dozen people in total would really give a crap if I vanished. Which is handy if I ever get bored and decide to move to another country (which is actually something I've considered).

As for leaving a mark on the world, I was half hoping my published work on producing conductive polymers would show my existence but it looks like graphene technology will arrive before we find a viable way of mass producing nanotubes >.< Now all I'm left with is my writing, the main portion of which I lost when fucktards at the PC repair shop wiped my notes and I lost my pen with the backup in the space of a week, and I still haven't gotten around to re-writing it from memory. And the worst part is reading it back now, I don't even like half the shit I've written. Blegh. Good thing I got over my emotional instability a while back.

EDIT: In the last two years: 500+ Reviews and 1/3rd a novel. Have I made a mark yet? :P Apparently I've shared 5.6TB of music so far too...
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Re: Importance?
« Reply #12 on: November 18, 2010, 07:57:41 PM »
good link and have fun :P

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Re: Importance?
« Reply #13 on: November 18, 2010, 08:20:51 PM »
Important? Me? That joke would almost be funny, if I didn't find it so sad.

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Re: Importance?
« Reply #14 on: November 18, 2010, 10:33:27 PM »
Importance... hmmm...
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Re: Importance?
« Reply #15 on: November 18, 2010, 10:36:33 PM »
I'm not very important... the real question is why would I want to be important? being important usually attracts more bad things than good ones, especially if you become important through politics or business.

If we're talking about uploading anime here, I'm in the top100 somewhere :P

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« Reply #16 on: November 18, 2010, 10:49:55 PM »
Am also somewhere in the top 250.

In the real world i doubt my importance is much, just another normal person, who when dead it probably won't matter.

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« Reply #17 on: November 18, 2010, 10:52:02 PM »
@ Enzedder: I can say the same exact thing except, In USA I cant go into bars until 21 and just turned 18. And sadly only have 700GB of anime! Need new External :P

I know I am important, I have been showed and proved just how important I am to my close friends. First friends I ever meet in my life that would care THAT much over anything concerning my health, situation, etc.. To be honest it is sort of overwhelming and very heart felting. I would not think twice in giving my life for theirs.

But I know If I go, I think I will be leaving something VERY great behind, those I love. And that would hurt them greatly yes, but I would do anything for their own good even though they might not think it so.
I do not have any Lady friends, because I happen to be straight! :P I do not have much of a boyfriend at the moment sadly, because of distance issues.

I know I would be greatly missed and never forgotten, there is not one shred of doubt of that in my mind.

As to the importance I am towards my family is a different story. I think that perhaps my mother would be the only one who mourns me greatly if I go. Yes they love me I suppose, but being taken for granted makes you think. Those I feel most important to is my friends, I know f***ed up.. irony, got to love it.

As to being important would only cause more bad then good, I highly disagree. Being and feeling important gives you a sense of belonging, self-worth, and dignity. You gain love, and respect. The only thing bad I can see in that is the fear of having it taken away. Other then that. Having nothing to lose by not being important, does not give you much reason to want to live now does it?

Now I think I have rambled enough.. for now! :3
And I wonder just who are these ladies you speak of!  ;)
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Re: Importance?
« Reply #18 on: November 19, 2010, 12:08:07 AM »
The matter of importance depends on which scale you are talking about. I may not be important to the world or the country I live in, but I know I am important to many of my friends due to hard times they have helped me threw and the opposite as well. My family would miss me, but I think I would be forgotten by them quicker then my friends, as odd as it sounds I do believe it is true with how dysfunctional we are.

Now on the matter of importance, does it matter to me in the long run, not in particular. I could live my life knowing I would be forgotten by everyone and still live it the same way as if I knew I was going to be remember for generations to past. I more would rather live threw it and leave the impact and have the great friends that I have made over the years with no promise of being remembered then going threw life wanting to be.
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Re: Importance?
« Reply #19 on: November 19, 2010, 12:43:14 AM »
For clarifications, the specific definitions of importance doesn't matter. Just, do you think you are important?

I really do think it's the human condition... like you are either one of two people. You either think you are important (regardless of what level of importance) or you just don't care about it, which is equally rewarding.