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Girlfriend saw my loli ....
Switch-Renn:
--- Quote from: Xenoran on May 11, 2011, 06:02:32 AM ---
--- Quote from: xyx on May 11, 2011, 05:56:19 AM ---oh god.
well, call her, if that doesn't work just go to her house and talk about this, tell her straight that you are a loli freak and maybe she will understand XD
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and the chances of any girl understanding this??? .... i doubt it ... it happened just a little bit ago .... maybe half an hour ago now ..... IT WAS 01:30AM its dark outside ... how was i supposed to know she would stop over this late .... but how long should i wait to call her?
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Give her a while to calm down first off. You don't want to piss her off even more by trying to explain yourself.
When she's calmed down, just sit her down and explain that you can't really help but like it. Ask her why she likes (and possibly indulges) in what she likes, and she'll most likely understand.
Though I'm assuming she's not pissed by the fact it was loli, but the fact you were fapping over something that wasn't her. In which case she'll just have to calm down herself, there's not much you can do. :v
Tiffanys:
--- Quote from: Switch-Renn on May 11, 2011, 12:34:00 PM ---Give her a while to calm down first off. You don't want to piss her off even more by trying to explain yourself.
When she's calmed down, just sit her down and explain that you can't really help but like it. Ask her why she likes (and possibly indulges) in what she likes, and she'll most likely understand.
Though I'm assuming she's not pissed by the fact it was loli, but the fact you were fapping over something that wasn't her. In which case she'll just have to calm down herself, there's not much you can do. :v
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Obviously it's because it was loli. He even mentioned she said it was okay if it was porn. She probably just wanted to see what kind of interests he had and his reluctance probably only excited her. And then when she found out it was little kids... that excitement spiraled down into a little vat of disillusional rage and disgust. It wasn't even something she could remotely compete with or get ideas from. It didn't help her at all, because it was little kids. And in the face of surmounting and utter defeat, she could do nothing but react hostilely in the situation. That, of course, shows her immaturity. But, it's not an unheard of response set in the given situation, for some individuals.
But you gotta deal with that a certain way. If the OP doesn't man up, he's just gonna get walked all over and it's going to be loomed over him for the rest of their relationship and judging from her immaturity, it'll be spread around after their harsh breakup, if it hasn't started to be already to her friends. Though she may have some semblance of self respect and realize that the guy she calls her boyfriend is that kind of person and she must be such a horrible judge of character, thereby reflecting poorly on herself as he was her choice.
All in all, if he doesn't put his foot down, it's gonna end badly. If not now, then later, to varying degrees of shittyness.
flyawave:
--- Quote from: Tiffanys on May 11, 2011, 12:26:47 PM ---If you want to fight a girl, you need to think like a girl
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In other words be an emotional little pussy and make yourself the victim before she can.
bleeprawr:
Note taken, I am sorry for double posting and not just modifying my comments.
Anyway, got work to do now
Hope all goes well
Tiffanys:
--- Quote from: flyawave on May 11, 2011, 12:43:24 PM ---
--- Quote from: Tiffanys on May 11, 2011, 12:26:47 PM ---If you want to fight a girl, you need to think like a girl
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In other words be an emotional little pussy and make yourself the victim before she can.
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Make yourself the victim, yes. Emotional pussy, no. You need to be firm, but still masculine. She has to maintain respect for you as a woman while you're doing this, even if she doesn't respect you as an individual at the time or even particularly like you. She can't be looking at you like a sniveling little baby. If she writes you off as a wuss, the argument is as good as over because nothing you say will reach her.
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