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Offline Chappy

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Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« on: August 27, 2011, 10:25:07 AM »
Anyone here? or Just me? :P

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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #1 on: August 27, 2011, 10:37:59 AM »
Googles social anxiety disorder

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Physical symptoms often accompanying social anxiety disorder include excessive blushing, sweating (hyperhidrosis), trembling, palpitations, nausea, and stammering often accompanied with rapid speech

I guess that includes me. Although I don't have an intense fear of social situations, I just don't really like them. Unless it is with family or friends of course.

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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #2 on: August 27, 2011, 02:33:10 PM »
I have a lot of anxiety when I go into new social situations, which means I'm usually shy and don't talk that much to people I don't know.  Heck, sometimes I feel anxiety just when I have to drive somewhere I've never been to before.  But I don't experience enough anxiety that it actually impairs my ability to function.
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« Reply #3 on: August 27, 2011, 02:38:32 PM »
I have a lot of anxiety when I go into new social situations, which means I'm usually shy and don't talk that much to people I don't know.
This, but it fades quickly once I feel well enough acquainted. Starting school or a new job is always rough on me for the first week or two. This is, however, is generally only in group situations. I am a strong speaker one on one and dont really get nervous in those situations.

I had it much worse when I was younger. During middle school and high school, I was pretty anti-social aside from my circle of friends. People always thought I hated everybody or something, but I was really it was just the anxiety of talking with people I did not know well. Luckily, I more or less got over it as I grew older. You kinda have to or you wont be able to function in the situations that you will encounter as you grow up.
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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #4 on: August 27, 2011, 03:04:19 PM »
I had this before a clinical name was attached to it.
I experienced it from about age 10 to about age 38.
It did impair my ability to function in situations where I was had to talk to strangers, and especially a group of strangers.
It impaired my ability to contribute to meetings at work, and to work well with co-workers.
I avoided social gatherings at all costs, and avoided people at gatherings that I could not avoid.

I joined Toastmasters and that fixed the problem after a few years.
For me, that was the miracle cure.

I'm still quite shy, mind you, and I still feel anxiety at times, but now I have the confidence and the mental tools to make the anxiety work for me instead of against me.
Now I often seek out those who are trying to fade away from the crowd, strike up conversation, and try to make them feel more at ease.
Speak to a crowd of strangers?  Take center stage?  No problem now.

Toastmasters is an incredibly cheap and effective treatment for this condition.
I recommend it highly.

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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #5 on: August 27, 2011, 03:54:04 PM »
I guess I'm affected by it... subconsciously. I never really sweat when I'm at home... but once I hit a public place, it's like Niagara Fucking Falls coming out of my pits... damn it, it's not like I can meet women when I'm at home!

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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #6 on: August 27, 2011, 04:49:21 PM »
I have a lot of anxiety when I go into new social situations, which means I'm usually shy and don't talk that much to people I don't know.  Heck, sometimes I feel anxiety just when I have to drive somewhere I've never been to before.  But I don't experience enough anxiety that it actually impairs my ability to function.

That's me, though it's not that bad, and kinda depends on the people, around some I'm just more comfortable than others

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« Reply #7 on: August 27, 2011, 07:01:51 PM »
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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #8 on: August 27, 2011, 07:42:02 PM »
I have a different problem. I can pretty easily talk to people in groups. I have problems with 1 on 1, having to force myself.

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« Reply #9 on: August 27, 2011, 08:24:56 PM »
I have a different problem. I can pretty easily talk to people in groups. I have problems with 1 on 1, having to force myself.

Maybe you're self-conscious because 1 person's attention is entirely focused on you.
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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #10 on: August 28, 2011, 12:37:29 AM »
Never had S.A.D. but I did teach myself out of feeling uncomfortable in certain social situations. I taught myself out of quite a few fears too.
I'm awkward getting into social situations, but not awkward at all when in them.
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« Reply #11 on: August 28, 2011, 03:11:33 AM »
But I have Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)


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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #12 on: August 28, 2011, 11:40:13 AM »
For one thing, Tiff is not on any level what I would call a typical American.  She's not what I would consider a typical person.  I don't know any other genius geneticist anime-fan martial artist marksman model-level beauties, do you?

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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #14 on: August 29, 2011, 01:47:56 AM »


Ace! It's not about me manning the fuck up... it's about building Hoover Fucking Damn at both my pitties... I swear, if there is 2 or more people around.. it's all of a sudden a wet dream... in MY ARM PITS.

It's so frustrating. Yes, I use antiperspirant... I even use the medical strength stuff, NOTHING.

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« Reply #15 on: August 29, 2011, 01:49:25 AM »


Ace! It's not about me manning the fuck up... it's about building Hoover Fucking Damn at both my pitties... I swear, if there is 2 or more people around.. it's all of a sudden a wet dream... in MY ARM PITS.

It's so frustrating. Yes, I use antiperspirant... I even use the medical strength stuff, NOTHING.

Try putting pads?


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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #16 on: August 29, 2011, 07:44:26 AM »
Is this the new "Self diagnosed aspergers"?

Look, nearly everyone is afraid of one thing or another, uncomfortable in one situation or another. Being shy, not being the centre of a party is not a god damn disease.

I had my fair share of speeches, I've also moderated and presented stuff. Everyone has some form anxiety in anticipation of attracting attention. However, we just do it nevertheless. There isn't a sober guy who does not contemplate the possibility of rejection while trying to pick up a girl just as well as there are no politicians, who just go out in front of a group of spectators while not giving a proverbial fuck.
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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #17 on: August 29, 2011, 07:45:22 AM »
I get uncomfortable in social situations. I wouldn't say its a disorder, I'm just shy and I always have been. *Shrug*

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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #18 on: August 29, 2011, 06:15:32 PM »
Try putting pads?

What are these pads you speak of? Are they like bra pads? Anything to get my god damn pits to stop sweating.

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Re: Anyone here with Social Anxiety Disorder (S.A.D.)?
« Reply #19 on: August 29, 2011, 07:19:45 PM »
^ i think he meant napkins or something similar.

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