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Morality and You
metro.:
--- Quote from: AceHigh on September 01, 2011, 03:01:42 AM ---Well, then I guess you have to practice it with like minded people, right? What I find sad is that many people are indoctrinated to that belief from early age. Hard to convert them afterwards.
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I have a really hard time finding people like me, maybe off at school I'll find some more people. I'll let you know.
And yeah, breaking it is hard but not impossible, just takes some...doing.
Fuck that was a bad joke.
--- Quote from: TMRNetShark on September 01, 2011, 03:30:47 AM ---I can't find anyone to have sex with (friends or not). I have never had that sort of relationship with a friend where sex was casual... so I have no right to talk about this subject.
So I will take the opposite side of the argument! You are all going to hell having premarital sex! You will burn for your sins! OMG, I am laughing so hard while typing this... I can't even keep a straight face on... HAHAHAH
Sex is fucking natural, have it as much as you want. I just wish I could get some sex SOMETIME in the near future (it don't even have to be good sex... I'll take mediocre!).... >.>
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Don't take mediocre, if it's bad the first time it's like watching a show that is hyped and ends up being shit.
Haha someone told me that was serious. They didn't realize I embraced it already. It was great fun.
At risk of sounding creepy, how old are you?
--- Quote from: NaRu on September 01, 2011, 03:32:15 AM ---Say you are friends with someone of the opposite sex. At first no feelings for each other goes beyond friendship but if you start having sex feelings can develop. If only side starts to be in love then it can hurt the friendship.
Once you have good sex, average sex seems more like a chore then anything else unless you don't get it on a weekly term.
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First part, amen. The one side thing though really messes with things which is annoying. Sex is sex, not love.
That's a great line. Although I really suppose good sex changes so it's hard to pin down a definition of good and average.
AceHigh:
--- Quote from: TMRNetShark on September 01, 2011, 03:30:47 AM ---Sex is fucking natural, have it as much as you want. I just wish I could get some sex SOMETIME in the near future (it don't even have to be good sex... I'll take mediocre!).... >.>
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First time with someone is mediocre at best unless you are lucky. You don't know her rhythm, she doesn't know yours. You don't know what stimulates her and vice versa.... and you get the idea. That is the cool thing about having sex with the same person over a period of time, after a while you know exactly what your partner likes. However I am not saying that you can't have just a casual sex partner that you practice sex with on a frequent basis.
Just look at Naru, after his tragic relationships it almost seems that the fuckfriend he is describing is the best thing that ever happened to him.
NaRu:
--- Quote from: metro. on September 01, 2011, 03:52:30 AM ---First part, amen. The one side thing though really messes with things which is annoying. Sex is sex, not love.
That's a great line. Although I really suppose good sex changes so it's hard to pin down a definition of good and average.
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Once you have "good" sex you know what I mean. Sex with my friend was the best sex I had in my life. When you are in a relationship sex is important but it doesn't have to the best to keep them close to you. When you are just friends you will only have sex with them if it's good or you have lack of sex in your life.
metro.:
To be honest first time I had sex it was like OMG then, but now I'd consider it average. That's what I mean about changing definitions. Fuckfriends are great, especially considering I'm not really the type of person for a romantic relationship, I just end up exploiting the person cause it's just too easy. Which is worrying in the long run so for now I just steer clear.
And yeah, sex with friends is good cause then it's not like a one night stand where if you ever make it to second night sex it's just about the sex, and that makes the sex worse in my opinion. Have some rapport with the person makes it more enjoyable, even if that comfortableness isn't in the realm of sexuality.
So drawing back, I'm not the only one that think this is okay. I guess being just out of high school my experience with relationships that aren't from school only and fueled by hormones alone puts in the position of everyone thinking sex is only okay after a few months of dating. I find it annoying.
tomoya-kun:
--- Quote from: metro. on September 01, 2011, 02:36:04 AM ---Wait you actually have zero female friends?
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To make a short story even shorter, yes.
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