Morality and You

[NaRu]

When you find the one you were suppose to be with then sex wouldn't as matter as much. Dating is fun but most of the time it doesn't work out when you are young. Once you get older then you will find more mature people out there that wants to settle down.

Well, I guess.  I've tried dating once, but it didn't really work out well.  But I've always wanted a girlfriend, anime just makes me sad when I watch it because I usually get quite lonely.  And the forums helps to relieve that perhaps?

You need to just get out more and meet some people. If you stay home all day and never go out to chill then you will have a hard time finding someone.

I don't stay home all day, I hang out with my (relatively few) friends.  But I never meet new people, where am I supposed to meet new people? 

Can you drink legally? If you can you can go to clubs, and bars. Also where you work or go to school. Don't be afraid to start a conversation with new people.

[metro.]

Can you drink legally? If you can you can go to clubs, and bars. Also where you work or go to school. Don't be afraid to start a conversation with new people.

I think Tomo is 15 so no to the first part. Legally of course, fake IDs aren't that hard to come by. Although if you can't talk to people it won't matter if your ID is real they wont' let you in if you act like you're 15. Something like $80 for one though, just a random fact.

And the second part is great advice. I graduated this year from high school, and I can tell you, none of the shit that happens really matters. Up till grade 10 I was so subconcious and worried about what people would think of me and stuff. Then I started grade 11 and it hit me that in two years it won't matter, I won't see the majority of these people very much/at all so I might as well see who likes who I am. And I met some pretty amazing people that I would never have had the guts to talk to before. It really makes life more enjoyable when you try to engage other people.

Seriously, no female friends, I worry.

[NaRu]

Can you drink legally? If you can you can go to clubs, and bars. Also where you work or go to school. Don't be afraid to start a conversation with new people.

I think Tomo is 15 so no to the first part. Legally of course, fake IDs aren't that hard to come by. Although if you can't talk to people it won't matter if your ID is real they wont' let you in if you act like you're 15. Something like $80 for one though, just a random fact.

And the second part is great advice. I graduated this year from high school, and I can tell you, none of the shit that happens really matters. Up till grade 10 I was so subconcious and worried about what people would think of me and stuff. Then I started grade 11 and it hit me that in two years it won't matter, I won't see the majority of these people very much/at all so I might as well see who likes who I am. And I met some pretty amazing people that I would never have had the guts to talk to before. It really makes life more enjoyable when you try to engage other people.

Seriously, no female friends, I worry.

I'm the opposite. I have more female friends then I do males.

I was insane in highschool. I broke so many things. Anyway just don't worry what other will do or say. Have fun with life.

[tomoya-kun]

Can you drink legally? If you can you can go to clubs, and bars. Also where you work or go to school. Don't be afraid to start a conversation with new people.

I think Tomo is 15 so no to the first part. Legally of course, fake IDs aren't that hard to come by. Although if you can't talk to people it won't matter if your ID is real they wont' let you in if you act like you're 15. Something like $80 for one though, just a random fact.

And the second part is great advice. I graduated this year from high school, and I can tell you, none of the shit that happens really matters. Up till grade 10 I was so subconcious and worried about what people would think of me and stuff. Then I started grade 11 and it hit me that in two years it won't matter, I won't see the majority of these people very much/at all so I might as well see who likes who I am. And I met some pretty amazing people that I would never have had the guts to talk to before. It really makes life more enjoyable when you try to engage other people.

Seriously, no female friends, I worry.

Well, I cannot drink legally (I am sixteen).  My school is a Boys school, so no girls there.  And I do no work.

So I never actually see girls really.  And I suck at talking to them.

[metro.]

I'm the opposite. I have more female friends then I do males.

I was insane in highschool. I broke so many things. Anyway just don't worry what other will do or say. Have fun with life.

I'm about even, which is nice. What do you mean by broke things?

Well, I cannot drink legally (I am sixteen).  My school is a Boys school, so no girls there.  And I do no work.

So I never actually see girls really.  And I suck at talking to them.

In my limited experience the guys that go to boys schools turn out to be either complete tossers or awesome. No middle ground. /offtopic.
My point is that most of them are womanizers. What do you mean by bad at talking to them, not like they're a different race or anything, sometimes seems like it though.

[tomoya-kun]

I'm the opposite. I have more female friends then I do males.

I was insane in highschool. I broke so many things. Anyway just don't worry what other will do or say. Have fun with life.

I'm about even, which is nice. What do you mean by broke things?

Well, I cannot drink legally (I am sixteen).  My school is a Boys school, so no girls there.  And I do no work.

So I never actually see girls really.  And I suck at talking to them.

In my limited experience the guys that go to boys schools turn out to be either complete tossers or awesome. No middle ground. /offtopic.
My point is that most of them are womanizers. What do you mean by bad at talking to them, not like they're a different race or anything, sometimes seems like it though.

Well, I don't really know what they are thinking, or if I say something, how they will react.  Or what they like to talk about in General, I guess.

[NaRu]

I'm the opposite. I have more female friends then I do males.

I was insane in highschool. I broke so many things. Anyway just don't worry what other will do or say. Have fun with life.

I'm about even, which is nice. What do you mean by broke things?

Doors, Windows, computers.....eleva tor >_>

I'm the opposite. I have more female friends then I do males.

I was insane in highschool. I broke so many things. Anyway just don't worry what other will do or say. Have fun with life.

I'm about even, which is nice. What do you mean by broke things?

Well, I cannot drink legally (I am sixteen).  My school is a Boys school, so no girls there.  And I do no work.

So I never actually see girls really.  And I suck at talking to them.

In my limited experience the guys that go to boys schools turn out to be either complete tossers or awesome. No middle ground. /offtopic.
My point is that most of them are womanizers. What do you mean by bad at talking to them, not like they're a different race or anything, sometimes seems like it though.

Well, I don't really know what they are thinking, or if I say something, how they will react.  Or what they like to talk about in General, I guess.

YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT THEY ARE THINKING! No true man can truly understand the thoughts that goes through a women's head.

[Ixarku]

YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT THEY ARE THINKING! No true man can truly understand the thoughts that goes through a women's head.

Truth.  Philip J. Fry had the best advice for when talking to women:  "Make up some emotions, and tell her you have them."  And also:

Fry:  "Ask her about her day."
Zoidberg:  "Why would I want to know?"
Fry:  "You wouldn't.  Ask anyway."

[kurandoinu]

Love how this thread seems to be turning into dating lessons for Tomoya. Made me laugh

I started having no strings sex with a guy I met during my first year of uni, but when I called it off because I'd got into a full relationship with someone else he started getting creepy. Texting me all the time to say lewd things and then telling me I'd ruined his life. :/

[harpy]

Replaying to first post: I do not think that it is good idea to have sex with a good friend if your are not drunk and just needy (both) and afterwards can just blame it on drunkenness, If not drunk could fuck up friendship, especially if you are male - females could get crazy. Know this girl who used to be just friends with old classmate for years and he had some kind of problem and they had sex and now she is just crazy, calling him all the time, confessing and so on, annoying. Looks like kurandoinu had similar experience....
If it is just a friend and you both need a fuck-buddy there is nothing wrong with that, its good to have a fuck-buddy it does not work as well if it is also a friend. I used to have this person (not really a friend) I know - we met we drank and we fucked and talked out all our problems without no consequences. I nice way to get rid of stress and other shit without worrying that you will bother someone or they will betray you as there is no trust involved.
So I would rather suggest not to get involved in purely sexual relationship with a friend unless its just an acquaintance. At least I try to do so as it could be just fine and it could also fuck everything up.

[tomoya-kun]

I'm the opposite. I have more female friends then I do males.

I was insane in highschool. I broke so many things. Anyway just don't worry what other will do or say. Have fun with life.

I'm about even, which is nice. What do you mean by broke things?

Well, I cannot drink legally (I am sixteen).  My school is a Boys school, so no girls there.  And I do no work.

So I never actually see girls really.  And I suck at talking to them.

In my limited experience the guys that go to boys schools turn out to be either complete tossers or awesome. No middle ground. /offtopic.
My point is that most of them are womanizers. What do you mean by bad at talking to them, not like they're a different race or anything, sometimes seems like it though.

Well, I don't really know what they are thinking, or if I say something, how they will react.  Or what they like to talk about in General, I guess.

YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT THEY ARE THINKING! No true man can truly understand the thoughts that goes through a women's head.

Well, after finding a girl, maybe I ask her out.  If I can find one lol.

What they like to do?  Shopping?  Because I like shopping too.

[hanayome]

What they like to do?  Shopping?  Because I like shopping too.

I don't like shopping. What a waste of time and money. >_>

Anyway, I'm on the same boat as tomoya (surprisingly). No female friends of that type. Have a couple of "normal" ones though...

[AceHigh]

I started having no strings sex with a guy I met during my first year of uni, but when I called it off because I'd got into a full relationship with someone else he started getting creepy. Texting me all the time to say lewd things and then telling me I'd ruined his life. :/

HAHAHAHAHAHA, that's awesome 

[kurandoinu]

He became known as "The guy with the uniform fetish" at work after he asked me if I wanted sex in my KFC uniform. The answer strangely was no, it stunk. :/

[AceHigh]

Reminds me how my girlfriend was pissed at some dude that made advances on her through skype. Apparently what pissed her off was that he was really clumsy and pathetic about it. 

[kurandoinu]

It wasn't a "Hey baby show me yours and I'll show you mine?" was it?

[JoonasTo]

He became known as "The guy with the uniform fetish" at work after he asked me if I wanted sex in my KFC uniform. The answer strangely was no, it stunk. :/

I can see how that would be attracting.
I wouldn't mind a good looking girl in a clean KFC uniform.
It actually is kinda hot.

[kurandoinu]

Really? It was an oversized tshirt and the most unflattering jeans ever at the time. I remember serving someone on the drivethru once who said "Do they make you guys wear those jeans so NOBODIES ass looks good in them?" They even have their own facebook page... Lol

Here's the page- http://www.facebook.com/pages/KFC-Jeans-/355706889570?sk=wall

[metro.]

Replaying to first post: I do not think that it is good idea to have sex with a good friend if your are not drunk and just needy (both) and afterwards can just blame it on drunkenness, If not drunk could fuck up friendship, especially if you are male - females could get crazy. Know this girl who used to be just friends with old classmate for years and he had some kind of problem and they had sex and now she is just crazy, calling him all the time, confessing and so on, annoying. Looks like kurandoinu had similar experience....
If it is just a friend and you both need a fuck-buddy there is nothing wrong with that, its good to have a fuck-buddy it does not work as well if it is also a friend. I used to have this person (not really a friend) I know - we met we drank and we fucked and talked out all our problems without no consequences. I nice way to get rid of stress and other shit without worrying that you will bother someone or they will betray you as there is no trust involved.
So I would rather suggest not to get involved in purely sexual relationship with a friend unless its just an acquaintance. At least I try to do so as it could be just fine and it could also fuck everything up.

So you're of a much more traditional stand point here? Fucking can mess up friendships, which is true if you're not careful. But those two must have classifications for friend sex are pretty much the same ones for a one night stand. And there you can't fuck up a friendship cause one hasn't started yet.
Have you experienced the "females getting crazy" from this?

Well, after finding a girl, maybe I ask her out.  If I can find one lol.

What they like to do?  Shopping?  Because I like shopping too.

Asking what all girls like is a bit stupid. Do all guys like the same things?
No. It's this thing called talking to people, you start to get to know them. Just don't get into that friend zone and try to make really awkward sexual advances.

He became known as "The guy with the uniform fetish" at work after he asked me if I wanted sex in my KFC uniform. The answer strangely was no, it stunk. :/

Okay that's honestly just weird. Fast food restaurant uniforms are meant to make people look the same so they don't really showcase their features, whatever they might be.
That's just fucking weird. This guy needs help.

[harpy]

Replaying to first post: I do not think that it is good idea to have sex with a good friend if your are not drunk and just needy (both) and afterwards can just blame it on drunkenness, If not drunk could fuck up friendship, especially if you are male - females could get crazy. Know this girl who used to be just friends with old classmate for years and he had some kind of problem and they had sex and now she is just crazy, calling him all the time, confessing and so on, annoying. Looks like kurandoinu had similar experience....
If it is just a friend and you both need a fuck-buddy there is nothing wrong with that, its good to have a fuck-buddy it does not work as well if it is also a friend. I used to have this person (not really a friend) I know - we met we drank and we fucked and talked out all our problems without no consequences. I nice way to get rid of stress and other shit without worrying that you will bother someone or they will betray you as there is no trust involved.
So I would rather suggest not to get involved in purely sexual relationship with a friend unless its just an acquaintance. At least I try to do so as it could be just fine and it could also fuck everything up.

So you're of a much more traditional stand point here? Fucking can mess up friendships, which is true if you're not careful. But those two must have classifications for friend sex are pretty much the same ones for a one night stand. And there you can't fuck up a friendship cause one hasn't started yet.
Have you experienced the "females getting crazy" from this?

Yep, I treasure these few friendships I have. I don't even fuck with my friends friends if they are close friends and I do not have permission. I used to do shit and so on and have fucked up stuff with friends by having sex with them. Just not worth it.
Khem, harpy is a female so these relationships I have had with my own gender was intended to be sexual, so no female going crazy because of having friend sex, just regular female crazy.
Oh I remember this drinking party at friends summer home last summer where 3 friends got to crazy and to drunk and had naked dancing and threesome - it was fun to watch all that awkwardness in the next morning and next few months. I believe the 2 females was not really talking to each other for a year or so