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In need of an imaginary friend
TwEeD:
--- Quote from: Kyrdua on November 03, 2011, 09:53:34 AM ---there's this people's choice guy named "Jesus Christ". look him up. next best would be "Muhammad".
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I'd personally go for :
;)
Jurichan:
Kurt Cobain had an imaginary friend, and look where he ended up!
Ashall:
--- Quote from: Jurichan on November 06, 2011, 03:55:46 AM ---Kurt Cobain had an imaginary friend, and look where he ended up!
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Ah such a tragedy... Why Kurt? You left a daughter... Who's living a pretty messed up life.. Nothing would be worse for a teenage girl than to have Courtney Love as a parent.
Jurichan:
--- Quote from: Ashall on November 06, 2011, 04:05:43 AM ---
--- Quote from: Jurichan on November 06, 2011, 03:55:46 AM ---Kurt Cobain had an imaginary friend, and look where he ended up!
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Ah such a tragedy... Why Kurt? You left a daughter... Who's living a pretty messed up life.. Nothing would be worse for a teenage girl than to have Courtney Love as a parent.
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I couldn't agree more.
Not to mention all the copycat suicides that came to follow thereafter. But in Kurt's eyes it must of been really shitty having all that money, drugs, and fans.
Probably did it because he realized In Utero was a heaping piece of dog shit.
fohfoh:
--- Quote from: goosi on November 03, 2011, 04:36:07 AM ---It's been like 3 years that I wanted to share my feelings and stuff with - you know - a real friend. But I never had any close friends. Had some friends hear and there but they're not very close.
So I've been thinking maybe I need an imaginary one. But dont know how you can make one.
I know it's a bit wierd but anyone has any ideas or experience in this stuff?
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Keep trying for a real one. At worst, I would suggest an online friend (not me, I'm actually quite insensitive) instead of an imaginary one. Always be willing to be vulnerable and willing to run into the situations where that bites you in the ass. It worked for me. Be willing to take constructive criticism like when people tell you, "You're being an asshole." These people are TRUE friends and not the fake ones. A true friend can sit down and tell you all your short comings without fearing they'll lose your friendship.
Imaginary friends takes you down a path so fucked up... you don't want to go there.
Friendship is reciprocation. It is not one sided. A friend on occasion is the person you choose to vent to. But if you only ever meet the friend to vent, that's not friendship, that's a free psychologist with no qualifications. No one likes hearing complaints 24/7. Rethinking what expectations to have in a friend might be a good start for you.
--- Quote from: Ashall on November 03, 2011, 06:58:01 AM ---I have friends and family but I didn't really let anyone get too close to me when I was younger, idk why.. Probably just teenage angst. The thing that bothered me the most was that I was popular and had to force a pretty smile ALL the frickin time. And I used to be too nice to speak my mind. So I started to write poetry and play the Erhu to vent out emotions.
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The Erhu? O_o damn. I was really outgoing when I was younger but receded to poetry and video games during teen angst. But Erhu? That's it's own big ass bag of courage right there.
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