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SilverDash:
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... Screw it I just commit this post.
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Agreed.
@elvikun
But it's wrong to say that men don't care as long as they just enjoyed it themselves. There are man (here here over here *waves* :P) that actually do care about that. And not just in a fake way like telling myself that I'm awesome in bed. That way I would stay at 'level 0' forever. And the quality is not just expressed in time. Men who last for 40-90 minutes can be a pile of crap. In fact, some women can actually have an orgasm within 5 minutes. Often that involves more than just penetration. But sadly I'd have to agree that it does apply to most men and most of the time... Like the stereotype guy that just puts it in, takes 3-5 minutes and zips up and leaves and tells everybody how awesome he was. Just ignore those guys and tell your girlfriends to avoid him.
@harpy
If a fuckbuddy slowly/coldly breaks up after telling him the truth then he is just a loser imo. Fuck buddies are supposed to increase the quality of their sexual experiences where possible. Better learn now then walk away angry and look for a faker and make the same mistake again till the day you die. That's like living in a fantasy world. That's the same as some lonely in a basement fantasizing about his non-existent sex-life. They are both fake in the end.
So to sum it up:
* Both men (obviously) and women are easy to seduce?
* Almost all men think they are great in bed while they actually almost all suck?
* Lying to women may increase your chances for getting laid. However because of this the chances for honest guys decrease dramatically.
* Women and men both lie to each other for various reasons. They both keep up 'old traditions'.
My conclusion: Both genders are disturbing...
Nodame-chan:
OMG, i cannot read this much :'( maybe smb will give me the general idea of this whole thing?? :D
SilverDash:
I shortened the post :P.
Sure: Short answer: sex/love.
longer answer: Erm. Ray was lonely. So I put a lot of stuff together how to seduce the average girl out there (read girls that are not so smart).
Then some people wanted to debate that or talk about it.
Now we are talking about plain sex and why women or men are better or just suck in bed and why they lie to each other in bed and to get each other in bed and hunting traditions (sexually).
Did i forget anything?
Ah yes, we also talked about the church and about Dr. Phil. :P
elvikun:
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@elvikun
But it's wrong to say that men don't care as long as they just enjoyed it themselves. There are man (here here over here *waves* :P) that actually do care about that. And not just in a fake way like telling myself that I'm awesome in bed. That way I would stay at 'level 0' forever. And the quality is not just expressed in time. Men who last for 40-90 minutes can be a pile of crap. In fact, some women can actually have an orgasm within 5 minutes. Often that involves more than just penetration. But sadly I'd have to agree that it does apply to most men and most of the time... Like the stereotype guy that just puts it in, takes 3-5 minutes and zips up and leaves and tells everybody how awesome he was. Just ignore those guys and tell your girlfriends to avoid him.
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Well. That's why I said "Many men" not just "men" :P
Either way, I admit I'm in a bit of a... awkward situation here, because am definetly not a man, but not exactly a typical woman either. Personally, I do not see a reason to fake. I actually can't see the reasoning behind a whole lot of things. I don't see how any girl can fall for ceratin things. As far as "seduction" and everything after that comes, I am very dominant person (not the SM meaning tho) too, which may change some traditional approaches along the way. And the 5-min orgasm? Well. At least we know noone faked with you now ( :D ).
Either way, before we got so sidetracked, the very original point I wanted to make was... Don't generalize so much. It really gets a little annoying over the long run. Also, don't do the "I am man, therefore I know everyhing about women better than they do." It's bad. Real bad. Makes you sound like living male incarnation of Cosmopolitan ;D
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--- Quote from: elvikun on February 27, 2012, 02:32:13 PM ---And... Womend who fake are not worth being with? Rethink that my friend, if every woman just said the truth after sex, like 1/4 of men on Earth would prolly commit suicide. Not good idea. Not at all! :D
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But if women just said it was not good, then in the next go men could try different things and maybe hit a jackpot :P
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9ooYMH192E
Also it's not our fault that women fake it. It's their fault :P
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mn5nf2xo2V4
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Because a comedians are always right :laugh:
Malakai0:
Single and bored of it after almost a year :(
--- Quote from: nodame-chan on February 27, 2012, 03:36:17 PM ---OMG, i cannot read this much :'( maybe smb will give me the general idea of this whole thing?? :D
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