Ghost Love?

[Raylightsa3]

Recently I have discovered a ghost in my room and my stuff moves around by itself as-well as a girl re appearing in my dreams over and over trying to communicate it freaks me out but at least its not a demon or whatnot it gets really cold when she is around (yes I think its a she) and every hair on my body stands. I think this is cool but still freaky. She is 18yr old she died in the 80's her name is Shanna. I hear Whispers at night and I feel that she is near me I don't know why though I see visions of her past in my sleep. I don't know how to tell all this without thinking people will see me as crazy but if you would like to know more plz ask

[AceHigh]

Well, on the bright side you identity is well hidden, so you can say the most things here. 

Also what makes you think it's not a demon in disguise? Or a banshee?

[Raylightsa3]

lol I have thought of that and done some research and this paranormal entity doesn't fit those descriptions. yes good I am hidden lol cuz then people would do god knows what

[Ixarku]

Recently I have discovered a ghost in my room and my stuff moves around by itself as-well as a girl re appearing in my dreams over and over trying to communicate it freaks me out but at least its not a demon or whatnot it gets really cold when she is around (yes I think its a she) and every hair on my body stands. I think this is cool but still freaky. She is 18yr old she died in the 80's her name is Shanna. I hear Whispers at night and I feel that she is near me I don't know why though I see visions of her past in my sleep. I don't know how to tell all this without thinking people will see me as crazy but if you would like to know more plz ask

Obviously it's impossible for us other posters to know if you're serious or crazy or just making things up & looking for attention.  But I prefer to assume that you're being serious.  Personally, something like this would freak the hell out of me if I experienced it.  My suggestion would be to see if you can get a family member or friend to experience the same things you've been experiencing.  Maybe get someone to spend a night in your room, or something like that.
 
Alternately, maybe set up a webcam or sound recorder and see if you can capture some ghostly action.  Any kind of corroborating evidence you can accumulate might help you feel better.  You'd at least have something to share with friends & family.
 
Also, as long as you are not being menaced or your life is not being too disrupted, you probably don't have to be worried, and might even be able to get used to the presence.

[AceHigh]

I have been living in a huge old house that seemed to be haunted a bit. Some footsteps at night... and day now that I think about it, my mom heard crying a few times, I never did. Oh, and the second floor where all those sounds came from, my dog avoided that place like plague. Couldn't make him stay up there for more than a second without a leash.

In the end I decided that it doesn't matter if it's real or not, either way it left me alone, our family left it alone and the house was big enough for all of us. Take my advice on that.

[Raylightsa3]

I dont have any of that stuff so getting proof is a pain in the ass but my family knows about it if you lay on the bed you can feel a bump as if someone is on it with you and it gets really cold but that dont bother me i sleep in the cold and i hate the heat.

[Raylightsa3]

I have been living in a huge old house that seemed to be haunted a bit. Some footsteps at night... and day now that I think about it, my mom heard crying a few times, I never did. Oh, and the second floor where all those sounds came from, my dog avoided that place like plague. Couldn't make him stay up there for more than a second without a leash.

In the end I decided that it doesn't matter if it's real or not, either way it left me alone, our family left it alone and the house was big enough for all of us. Take my advice on that.

I take great enjoyment in paranormal stuff so this is like christmas day for me  all the time that is

[Jarudin]

Get more sleep and pull your head out of your arse.

[elvikun]

You made some really "deep depression" posts up till now, but eh, come on.
Call it  the power of self suggestion and you surely do need a ... Partner. If you said fat hairy 50 years old woman walks around your room, I would believe you (well, prolly not, but still), but this just make you sound like you're so horny that you are halucinating.

[Raylightsa3]

sorry I havent been on that much so my less depressing posts are on another site ive got a girlfriend already so Im fine if you dont believe in ghosts then more power to you but dont shove your beliefs down others throats and call them crazy.

[AceHigh]

So have you told your girlfriend about your paranormal love triangle yet?

Woa! I just got an idea for a porn movie plot.

[Raylightsa3]

So have you told your girlfriend about your paranormal love triangle yet?

Woa! I just got an idea for a porn movie plot.

lol this would be a good plot. yea she knows shes into this sort of thing

[elvikun]

I haven't said you're crazy, I said you're horny. There is a difference... Or so I would like to think.

I just believe it's all the power of suggestion as far as paranormal accidents go. Keep telling a kid there is a ghost in the attic, and there is a very good chance he will eventually start hearing sounds in the night.
In this case, you say you are "into" paranormal, which means you believe or want to believe the ghost might be there, perhaps at some level, wish the ghost to be there. Then it is natural that you might have lucid dreams related with such a topic and, perhaps not willingly, misinterpret lights and sounds once your brain gets a bit slower before/after/during the sleepytime.
Just saying.

[Raylightsa3]

Im very skeptical and I mean I dont believe unless I see and I know objects and all dont move on there own accord.

[elvikun]

Record it then. Maybe you can't tape a ghost, but you most certainly can record corporeal object moving. Unless, of course, it happens at bight, which leads me back to dreaming, lucid dreaming and possibly sleepwalking.

[Raylightsa3]

Iv tried that for a week but provoking it dosnt work but my friend and girlfriend have all seen this stuff act on its own so its not just me

[elvikun]

Well, with words of another "What a coincidence!". It won't ever appear with camera in a room, which would prove everything to everyone, but it doesn't mind crowd of likeminded people watching.
It's the same thing  as religious people seeing face of Jesus and miracle where atheists see nothing but a smear on a wall and a raibow.

- If you want to see signs hard enough, you will see them eventually. -

[AceHigh]

That's why I disregard that stuff. It may be real, it may be my imagination, or it may be the voices in my head as my insanity progresses. In all cases I don't want to have anything to do with it even after having "experiences" myself. No scratch that, I would welcome the contact with the voices in my head, especially if they would bring insight together with insanity, just like the ones Malkavians have 

So your logic doesn't apply to me, elvikun.

[elvikun]

Ooooh, but Ace, I TOTALLY didn't mean you when I was talking about spooked kid and the attic!

Most of the things can be proved absolutely natural and normal, as long as people set to investigate properly. But the problem here is, that most of the people who see ghosts...or hear them are either too afraid to investigate or do not actually want to prove they aren't there.

Well, in your case, it prolly was real, some of your Viking ancestors are sitting there and tearing their beard off (That's the sound) after seeing what your culture came to 

[Soryon]

Next time you sense this presence, just start masturbating furiously. Eventually it will get grossed out and leave you alone, or it will join in on the fun. You are a winner either way.