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buchno:
--- Quote from: metro. on April 10, 2012, 10:08:31 PM ---You're a reincarnation with a gender swap? And she's still alive? This shit is getting weird.
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Ah, thought elvikun was a woman, sorry.
xfreidax:
The thread title does this topic no justice imo but I digress. At least it was philosophical and ambiguous enough to draw my attention.
I'm a little tipsy so that's my excuse but here goes.
Men can stumble into things. No preparation needed.
Women can also stumble into things but...... what happens afterwards is what separates Mars from Venus. Or so I would like to believe...
As with most things human, exceptions are the rule rather than the norm. Ying and Yang. Because in the deepest part of Ying, you will find the opposite. Vice versa.
Sex is 90% in your head. At one level, it's the basest of human instinct. On another level, it's also the epitome of our imagination and romanticism.
Our views on sex will change with time and experience, so it's hard to answer your question OP. But I tend to agree with the generalisation that sex is a more emotional event for women than it is for men. And you may be right. It may have something to do with our biology and physiology. That thought has crossed my mind and it's me being very clinical. That is not to say I'm not emotional. Trust me, I am.
So when I first discovered sex, did I see girls differently based on whether they were virgins? To be honest, that question only came up when assessing my chances to get laid. In fact, it was in my head before I even lost my virginity. Yes, I was a pretty horny kid with a wild imagination. :P
Do I still see things that way? Whether women are virgins or not no longer matters. But if the sexual tension and attraction is there, chances are I would fantasie about her at some point.
I'm not sure if this was the discussion you were after but for what it's worth, that's how it is for me. :P
metro.:
--- Quote from: buchno on April 10, 2012, 10:20:17 PM ---
--- Quote from: metro. on April 10, 2012, 10:08:31 PM ---You're a reincarnation with a gender swap? And she's still alive? This shit is getting weird.
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Ah, thought elvikun was a woman, sorry.
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God damn it buchno, I thought you gave me shit for assuming you were a girl, and I was actually right?
elvikun:
--- Quote from: buchno on April 10, 2012, 10:06:33 PM --- (click to show/hide)
--- Quote from: elvikun on April 10, 2012, 09:58:38 PM ---Yeah, offended me. It's not easy to do that. I'm often just slightly irritated when a man starts to talk about women and puts it as if it's a rule, yet it's something I wouldn't even consider doing. Especially crying. The last time I did that was before elementary shool and that was because I had enormous piece of metal stuck in my leg. Gee, maybe metro was right and I am emotionally jaded, heh. I guess the irritation is caused by all the years of listening to men talk about "them stupid bitches" (vulgar simplification) on the internet and sometimes, I can't help but take it personally.
But thinking back, I'm really a bit odd. I never went trough the "looking cool" stage or the typical high school experiences and romances. I never liked "bad boys", I never sat there with girls talking about ... shit. I never giggled on football players, I never blushed, neved made little hearts out of question marks, never smoked to look adult, never drank for the sake of drinking, never played the dare games... And man, it goes on and on. But, for some reason, trying to not be cool and not caring was perceived as very cool by many, but it usually din't last for long, as not many people could take my sarcasm and skepticism at that time, lol. I usually ended up with a group of nerds making epic poems about my accomplisments in Morrowind and Ultima.
Well. That's sad. I almost want to go on about it and it feels so long time ago even tho it's not more than 7 or 8 years.
Oh the nostalgia overload.
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Wow. While reading through this, I feel like a reincarnation of you (though, you haven't technically passed on yet). Very interesting, it is.
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Technically alive? That sounds... dangerous at best.
And yeah, weird people are everywhere. But then again, maybe we're just not part of the "sheeple". Maybe it's even good. I know I wouldn't trade or change.
But to clarify, I wasn't a boring abstinent, I just never participated in the "Hey, let's go over to x and see if they'll ask for ID when we order a beer YEEEAAAAH So badass!" and I made sure noone ever saw me smoking.
Heck, maybe people back then would even think I'm funny if the knew what sarcasm is.
@metro
How could Art thread be so entertaining as something revolving about sex? Also, you can't even tell a girl from a boy, how could YOU possibly tell who's a virgin... ;D
@rosh
That wasn't sarcasm. Totally not the most obviouis sarcasm I ever used on BBT. No. Nope. Non, non, non. Nein. Ne.
Also
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buchno:
--- Quote from: metro. on April 10, 2012, 10:24:29 PM ---
--- Quote from: buchno on April 10, 2012, 10:20:17 PM ---
--- Quote from: metro. on April 10, 2012, 10:08:31 PM ---You're a reincarnation with a gender swap? And she's still alive? This shit is getting weird.
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Ah, thought elvikun was a woman, sorry.
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God damn it buchno, I thought you gave me shit for assuming you were a girl, and I was actually right?
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It's just that you're so easy and fun to mess with, metro. :]
--- Quote from: elvikun on April 10, 2012, 10:25:22 PM ---@metro
How could Art thread be so entertaining as something revolving about sex? Also, you can't even tell a girl from a boy, how could YOU possibly tell who's a virgin... ;D
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elvikun, you just made my day complete x]
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