Author Topic: Dating "Deal Braker" (Read 4018 times)

SirSkyRider · « **Reply #100 on:** May 05, 2012, 07:18:07 PM »

-bad hygiene
-bad sense of fashion (by that I mean any piece of fashion that just makes a girl look like a slut e.g. tops that show the bellybutton)
-young/childish (referring to "real" and mental age)
-dumb/uneducated (includes closed-mindedness)
-"feminazi"
-oversized boobs (yes, this is definitely something I disgust. especially when the rest of the body is looking rather delicate)
-smoker/drug addict
-"fujoshi"
-vegetarian/vegan (I don't
-life guidance books reader/new age fag
-"skeletons with skin" (aka "supermodels" (other extreme is shitty too))
-gossiping (though you rarely find that out on a first date)
-slut

Nikkoru · « **Reply #101 on:** May 05, 2012, 07:25:50 PM »

Quote from: AceHigh on May 05, 2012, 06:41:38 PM

Hahaha, you are talking of japanophiles, I guess? Those are annoying no matter what gender.

I think that's more along the lines of deluded and easily manipulated. Uncritically and naively accepting a fictional ideal as represented by cultural products and heresay. I know a japanophile, an architect who fell in love with the aesthetic while studying and now everything he owns or designs has some Japanese pastiche to them if they aren't directly from Japan. It's obsessive to a point, but he's not a fool who thinks Japanese people shit gold and have rainbows spring out of their noses when they sneeze.

Well, there are people here I know who think Scandinavia is utopic, and I've spoken with non-North Americans who think American television is at all representative of life here. Grass must be greener somewhere, I suppose.

undetz · « **Reply #102 on:** May 05, 2012, 09:02:10 PM »

You know, compared to working class in the USA, working class in Scandinavian countries (pick one, whichever you like) is a kind of Utopia.

FenNiverdia · « **Reply #103 on:** May 05, 2012, 09:10:54 PM »

Quote from: undetz on May 05, 2012, 09:02:10 PM

You know, compared to working class in the USA, working class in Scandinavian countries (pick one, whichever you like) is a kind of Utopia.

I actually got that impression when I was staying with a few legal immigrants in Stockholm last winter while travelling there. Should probably consider looking whether there might be some job openings for upcoming Uni graduates like me, because my country doesn't give a poop about financing science. :B

But yeah. Could add "choosing to be misinformed" as another turn-off. I do hate the insistent "but isn't this so-and-so" questions.

FenNiverdia · « **Reply #104 on:** May 05, 2012, 09:11:25 PM »

Oh poopie, double post.

elvikun · « **Reply #105 on:** May 05, 2012, 11:01:32 PM »

Quote from: AceHigh on May 05, 2012, 03:28:03 AM

Quote from: elvikun on May 04, 2012, 08:06:50 PM
Oh, I see. Retroactive justice on men is invalid, but women should make up for what they didn't have to do troughout the history.
...
You have noticed it's a "jest" reaction, right? If women should make up for the time they weren't forced into army, then men should... Get it? I hope so Mr. Menaresoopressed

No, that is a flawed logic. After all I am not proposing that women make up for anything happening in the past. Only take upon themselves the same burdens that men of this generation have, no more, no less.

Jest. That is synonymous with joke. Get it now?

Even if it wasn't tho, you should check whom I was talking to.

Phylloh · « **Reply #106 on:** May 06, 2012, 01:52:36 AM »

A lot of agreements here. Mine would be in order of . . intensity? I guess?
1.Smoking. No. Both of my parents have. No. Do not want to deal with it anymore
2.Dumb. Stupid people annoy the piss out of me.
3.The manipulative ones. You know what I mean. The ones who think they can change you? Yeah those.
4.High maintenance. Ugh.
5.Crazy clingy. Ones that call oh. . . off the top of my head. 19 times in an hour. 30 some odd texts. Accusing your voicemail which was a preorder bonus from a game as an actual female and saying youre cheating on here. Psychos ^^ gotta love em.

I only have a few like. . . I would ENJOY if they had.
Less body hair than I
Be smaller than I *i'm fat that's not hard to do*
Be tolerant of anime/video games.

That's really about it.

AceHigh · « **Reply #107 on:** May 06, 2012, 02:02:01 AM »

Quote from: Burkingam on May 05, 2012, 07:03:58 PM

My worst turn off are people who are mean e.g. violent, always badmouthing others, dishonest, thieves.

Weird, I got impression that you don't hate politicians

mgz · « **Reply #108 on:** May 06, 2012, 03:09:51 PM »

Quote from: Phylloh on May 06, 2012, 01:52:36 AM

A lot of agreements here. Mine would be in order of . . intensity? I guess?
1.Smoking. No. Both of my parents have. No. Do not want to deal with it anymore
2.Dumb. Stupid people annoy the piss out of me.
3.The manipulative ones. You know what I mean. The ones who think they can change you? Yeah those.
4.High maintenance. Ugh.
5.Crazy clingy. Ones that call oh. . . off the top of my head. 19 times in an hour. 30 some odd texts. Accusing your voicemail which was a preorder bonus from a game as an actual female and saying youre cheating on here. Psychos ^^ gotta love em.

I only have a few like. . . I would ENJOY if they had.
Less body hair than I
Be smaller than I *i'm fat that's not hard to do*
Be tolerant of anime/video games.

That's really about it.

everybody loves crazy pussy, its what makes it so great.
Its like doing crack you know its awful for you but its so damn addictive.

Burkingam · « **Reply #109 on:** May 06, 2012, 04:44:16 PM »

Quote from: AceHigh on May 06, 2012, 02:02:01 AM

Quote from: Burkingam on May 05, 2012, 07:03:58 PM
My worst turn off are people who are mean e.g. violent, always badmouthing others, dishonest, thieves.

Weird, I got impression that you don't hate politicians

What? There's no way in hell I would ever do a politician!!!

Seriously though. It's not that I like politicians. It's that I try not to generalize. If corruption is widespread it doesn't mean that everyone is corrupted. I even think most of them are really trying to do good. They are just not very good at it.

Soryon · « **Reply #110 on:** May 06, 2012, 10:46:33 PM »

Nagging about my hobbies and people who either always want to go out or never want to go out.

Also, gigantic boobs and/or no shape to their ass. If there is no physical attraction then its just not going to work out.

megido-rev.M · « **Reply #111 on:** May 07, 2012, 01:55:37 AM »

In a nutshell:

Appearance: hygiene (+scents), health, proportions (concerning the noticeable details)
Personality: intelligence, style, affinity/compatibility with my values

musabee · « **Reply #112 on:** May 07, 2012, 05:51:38 AM »

Saying "I love you" in the first week of the relationship...

GoGeTa006 · « **Reply #113 on:** May 07, 2012, 05:59:40 AM »

Quote from: musabee on May 07, 2012, 05:51:38 AM

Saying "I love you" in the first week of the relationship...

omg my ex girlfriend pulled that on me. . .I just remained silent. . .

there was some gossip going around of her still seeing her ex boyfriend (cheating on me)
so the next time she told me she loved me I said "I love me too" and I plainly said "stop saying that, we both know its not true"

musabee · « **Reply #114 on:** May 07, 2012, 06:05:38 AM »

Quote from: GoGeTa006 on May 07, 2012, 05:59:40 AM

Quote from: musabee on May 07, 2012, 05:51:38 AM
Saying "I love you" in the first week of the relationship...

omg my ex girlfriend pulled that on me. . .I just remained silent. . .

there was some gossip going around of her still seeing her ex boyfriend (cheating on me)
so the next time she told me she loved me I said "I love me too" and I plainly said "stop saying that, we both know its not true"

Wow, sorry to hear about that ; _ ; but its better to find out about her true colours earlier on before it turned into a total disaster. Its total bullshit, a vast amount time is needed before those kind of feelings could be developed.

rostheferret · « **Reply #115 on:** May 07, 2012, 08:30:01 AM »

Quote from: musabee on May 07, 2012, 05:51:38 AM

Saying "I love you" in the first week of the relationship...

Ooh boy, you'd hate me. I told my current gf I was interested in her within a week of meeting her

Yes, feelings develop over time, but I was able to tell that I liked her very quickly; we clicked very quickly were instantly comfortable with each other and enjoyed each others company. Sometimes you can just tell...

AceHigh · « **Reply #116 on:** May 07, 2012, 04:08:30 PM »

Well, "falling in love" is something that can happen suddenly, while loving someone as in caring a lot about person usually takes time. Probably some semantic misunderstandings between people that say "I love you" to others.

Nikkoru · « **Reply #117 on:** May 07, 2012, 06:46:07 PM »

One of the reasons I'm not a Religious person. Broad declarations of love from strangers.

harpy · « **Reply #118 on:** May 07, 2012, 06:50:57 PM »

deal breaker would be a guy/girl that bores me , dude/girl who wears sweat pants or what ever you call them if its not for running or something of that kind, oh and no raper type of people, they just piss me off

well I am not picky if the person is interesting, I have no problem loving them for a day or two

oh and strong smells, even if he/she is interesting but have a strong smell (be it bad body odor or strong perfume) harpy is gone. My can not breath then.
In fact I can handle natural body odor most of the time, but chemical ones just close up my airways.

megido-rev.M · « **Reply #119 on:** May 07, 2012, 11:50:35 PM »

Quote from: harpy on May 07, 2012, 06:50:57 PM

oh and strong smells, even if he/she is interesting but have a strong smell (be it bad body odor or strong perfume) harpy is gone. My can not breath then.
In fact I can handle natural body odor most of the time, but chemical ones just close up my airways.

Likewise, bad scents will simply drive my sense of smell ballistic.