Dating "Deal Braker"

[AceHigh]

Well, I personally don't think it's bad, however cutting them with my razor sharp knife I cut at an angle meaning that my nails feel "sharp"... nice feeling when I scratch my back afterwards. Also cutting them short prevents me from using my nails as an improvised screw driver, now if I only stop using teeth as utility tools as well, I would have taken another step away from being a barbarian.

Also, how very feminist of you.

Yeah, I forgot, this would be a deal breaker for me. Feminists can fuck right off as far as I am concerned. Also the definition of a feminist:

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[elvikun]

Hey, I remember the one on the right. She started holy campaign, because random man asked if she'd have a coffee with him. Priceless video. But then again, how genial you have to be to ask that on some sort of feminist meeting? But let us be fair, just because everyone who hates anything remotely masculine started to call themself feminist recently is a bad base for judgement. Not that the base ideology is flawless, it's not "agints men" tho.

About the nails, I don't get why use knife. Why bite the off. It's faster and way smoother with scisors, not to mention the scissors made exclusively for that purpose.



Also remembered... People who keep their mouth open while eating. That's just wrong.
And since I'm in the restaurant already - People who are posers in this area. Like asking for a wine menu, staring at it for 5 minutes, "looking like a boss" and then going "Erm, red...wine?" on the waiter. 

[AceHigh]

Because scissors became loose and after a while all but fell apart and I can't be arsed buying new ones as long as my utility knife does the job. Imagine it being like those people that use an old fashioned razor blade instead of electric shavers.

[Masterworla]

i still do "well sometimes" though im not from the 80's.


topic.
they got to have some self confident, be true, and not being bitchy <<"like everytime acting like that for nothing".

[kadatherion]

"cute little gecko fingers" - Yes, I had the feeling it was about you.
But come on, it's not so hard to not eat your fingers. Apart from looks, just imagine the amount of stuff moving from envirimoment to your mouth and from your mouth to people and things you touch 

Ewww, now I have this gross feeling I'm still in the oral stage... But then again, after I read how many insects one is - in the course of his lifetime - statistically expected to swallow while asleep, there's nothing much left that can scare me.
Which reminds me of another deal breaker: she must not be overly scared of spiders. Because then I'd be forced to be the one taking care of them, without breaking a sweat as I'm ze man; and I hate spiders. When a woman is present I might even let them crawl on my arms with a smile on my face... but then as soon as I'm alone I act like a rape victim.

And yes, it is hard to leave your fingers alone anyway when you're of neurotic character. As I always need to be doing something, if it wasn't biting my nails it would be smoking even twice as much as I already do: and then I'd smell and taste like an ash tray.
I did try it once though, for a joke. I managed to resist long enough to grow some wicked witchlike claws. The feast that followed as soon as I grew too bored to bother was legendary.

Yeah, I forgot, this would be a deal breaker for me. Feminists can fuck right off as far as I am concerned.

Unless they're of the really obnoxious, hypocritical type, I usually don't mind. As long as they don't go all jihad against me when I pay for dinner: while I like women who are emancipated from gender roles, on the other hand I have this sick and old fashioned habit to do things like that (when they're not looking of course: you can't flash your wallet in front of them if you don't want to look like an ass, so as soon as they go to the toilet you run to the cashier ), open the door for them and stuff like that.

Anyway, this reminds me of another thing quite a few women tend to be that's almost a deal breaker for me: vegetarians. You are free to have your tastes, but don't bitch to me about being sorry for them cute little bunnies. You only make me want to kill a couple more just out of spite.

[GoGeTa006]

Because scissors became loose and after a while all but fell apart and I can't be arsed buying new ones as long as my utility knife does the job. Imagine it being like those people that use an old fashioned razor blade instead of electric shavers.

dude where do you live? you sound like you live in a cave equiped with WiFi, and you survive using nothing but a utility knife and your brainz
mmm
probably cave-women would be a deal breaker

[Masterworla]

rough in the bed 

[AceHigh]

dude where do you live? you sound like you live in a cave equiped with WiFi, and you survive using nothing but a utility knife and your brainz

Roughly 30 metres from the closest convenience store and about 150 metres from the town's biggest shopping mall. I suspect the answer to why I don't bother to buy stuff like that can be described with the first word of your quote.

[rostheferret]

Physical appearances (gotta find them attractive) aside, intelligence. I don't mean that in the "you must have some sort of degree;" not as in book smarts, just the ability to hold an intelligent conversation. If I'm rolling my eyes uncontrollably, it isn't going to work out. I don't care if our thoughts on every matter are polar opposite, I can deal with that, but not being able to elaborate on why you hold that opinion? Not being able to hold a rational discussion on a topic? Or even worse, attempting, failing, then getting really angry/upset at this fact? Assuming I'm insulting you or intentionally trying to piss you off by calmly discussing something? That just annoys me to no end and locked in a room for long enough, I can guarantee only one of us is gonna make it out alive. It's handy at times though, the reason I couldn't date someone too young for my age has nothing to do with legality - though it is naturally a convincing argument - but because I'd end up punching you in the face before we got to that stage (hyperbole, in case anyone ends up on a 'abuse of women' rant).

On the flip side is the ability to actually have fun, and have it independently. I'm not going to choose between you and my friends but you're often more than welcome to join me when I'm with them; I AM going to go out without you and I expect you'll probably do the same. I like my "me" time as well, don't be offended by that fact. You have friends too, I don't need to be present every time you spend time with them. Nor do I need a blow by blow account of your night out, have a good time, I trust you, put down the damn phone and enjoy yourself. A little bit of crazy is a good thing, in a long term relationship the last thing I want is for things to become boring. I went out with a girl at uni and it's only after we split up that I realised how much I'd been 'reigned in' in terms of going out and usual activity. She didn't drink so never wanted to go out so we'd always end up at the theatre or for a meal by ourselves, which don't get me wrong, I do enjoy doing, but it's good to balance that with letting your hair down and just going out and having a laugh with friends from time to time.

Just about everything else I can deal with. Tattoo's? Awesome (to a point). Vegetarian? Just don't shove it down my throat when I'm biting into the side of a pig. Religion? Well, that satisfies the "crazy" criteria, just don't expect me to convert any time soon. Even personal hygiene to a point, mines DREADFUL, but if it's getting to the 'physical attractiveness' issue then obviously you've gone too far and it's time to take a damn shower. It all boils down to acceptance and compromise, I'm not perfect and neither are you. Deal with it.

[AceHigh]

Hygiene quirks? Actually it reminds me somehow of the thread about peeing in the shower. I am sure that would be a deal breaker for some, but damn I love the freedom of flow... not to mention killing two birds with one stone. 

[Alfa]

 

[Saras]

Hmm.

Smoker,
Vegetarian,
Feminazi,
Co-worker and an annoying voice.

For build, I wouldn't mind someone who ranged between petite to a bit chubby, but I'm not a fan of either extreme what concerns the scales. A little bit of muscle definition would also be a plus to my eyes. The ideal body needs to be soft, yet have a shape. Similar to say a light athlete or a tennis player.

And finally, someone I wouldn't consider dull.

To be honest, while quite demanding. My standards have yet to reach what I'd consider unreasonable.

[Nikkoru]

Nail clipper + file once a week.

Also

fem·i·nist  [fem-uh-nist]
adjective Sometimes, fem·i·nis·tic .
1.
advocating social, political, legal, and economic rights for women equal to those of men.
noun
2.
an advocate of such rights

Please don't intentionally confuse the meaning of the word with misandrist or feckless complainer simply because you lack an appropriate epithets. I doubt I could date a woman who wasn't a feminist or didn't see herself fundamentally as my equal.

[Saras]

Nail clipper + file once a week.

Also

fem·i·nist  [fem-uh-nist]
adjective Sometimes, fem·i·nis·tic .
1.
advocating social, political, legal, and economic rights for women equal to those of men.
noun
2.
an advocate of such rights

Please don't intentionally confuse the meaning of the word with misandrist or feckless complainer simply because you lack an appropriate epithets. I doubt I could date a woman who wasn't a feminist or didn't see herself fundamentally as my equal.

Which is why I chose to write feminazi.

[AceHigh]

Please don't intentionally confuse the meaning of the word with misandrist or feckless complainer simply because you lack an appropriate epithets. I doubt I could date a woman who wasn't a feminist or didn't see herself fundamentally as my equal.

It's not our fault that militant lesbians use the word "feminist" as a label for advocating a gehenna against all men. It's also not our fault that since the 3 to 4 decades ago the movement of equal rights has been degenerated into a cult of word calling dumb bitches that refuse to enter any debate, but instead use media to drag people in the dirt - men and women alike who disagree with them.

Of course I want my woman to feel equal to me, but I wouldn't think twice about breaking up with someone who is in that men hating bandwagon mentality. Reminds me that my ex also hated feminists...

[elvikun]

You know, the little jokes like this, when repeated enough, create the monsters who will sue you for holding the door.
It's like saying all christians rape kids and all muslims love to blow up in a middle of a crowd. It's just not true, but those individuals are the most famous or rather vocal, in the case of "feminists" (I stress the"").


Edit: Or rather, bitching about weathy people doesn't make you a marxist, saying you hate men doesn't make you a feminist. It just makes you stupid. It's not a good idea to judge the group and ideology based on those people. That's just randomly offending people who have nothing to do with what you hate.

[AceHigh]

True, but imagine if in your examples it were the "leaders" that were radical, like Imams in Mecca advocating suicide bombing. Because popular feminist movements became like that, just like the once noble idea to protect animals turned into PETA.

Bah, maybe I can't be more sympathetic because I am from a country that already tipped over and now women have more rights... good thing the government still didn't put them on the first place. Currently it's children, women, cats and dogs and then men.

In my country women have all equal rights. The only thing left for feminists to do, is to bitch about some guy that was stupid enough to ask them out for dinner.

[elvikun]

Well, there are simplier ways to say you're a lesbian than making tenths of hours of footage about the horrors of manhood, but again, that has nothing to do with feminism. Similar thing with paying, asking out and anything else of this sort. I fail to see how is it offensive. It's more like a compliment.
And how are rigts of men inferior to women over there? Just wondering.
I still see problems tho, such as employment in ceratin areas, even if you have better references and degrees, it's still very likely that a man will get chosen over you, because, well, he's a man.

[Nikkoru]

Please don't intentionally confuse the meaning of the word with misandrist or feckless complainer simply because you lack an appropriate epithets. I doubt I could date a woman who wasn't a feminist or didn't see herself fundamentally as my equal.

It's not our fault that militant lesbians use the word "feminist" as a label for advocating a gehenna against all men. It's also not our fault that since the 3 to 4 decades ago the movement of equal rights has been degenerated into a cult of word calling dumb bitches that refuse to enter any debate, but instead use media to drag people in the dirt - men and women alike who disagree with them.

Of course I want my woman to feel equal to me, but I wouldn't think twice about breaking up with someone who is in that men hating bandwagon mentality. Reminds me that my ex also hated feminists...

And... why would such a person be romantically interested in you, assuming they're as you descibed? Your long and silky hair? Your dainty manner?

I like radical feminists, I've dated a few -- they were generally smarter than me, which is a big plus.

[AceHigh]

And how are rigts of men inferior to women over there? Just wondering.

Rights are the same, but women kept the perks and didn't take the burdens. For example a man is badly positioned when it comes to taking custody over children unless mother is some crackwhore that is deemed unsuitable as a mother. Then there is no conscription for women. It is not easy for men to take paternal leave as it is for women even though the law states that both parents should have the possibility to have equal amount paternal leave after birth. The list goes on...

I still see problems tho, such as employment in ceratin areas, even if you have better references and degrees, it's still very likely that a man will get chosen over you, because, well, he's a man.

And with all the affirmative action laws it is more likely that a woman with inferior qualification will get a job because the company needs to fill the quota of women. The most extreme example we had was a corporation owner who was criticized for not having any women at executive board, so his answer was "It's a family business, god gave me 2 sons but no daughters, that's why I don't have any women in that position". Feminists and politicians were not amused.