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Dating "Deal Braker"
AceHigh:
--- Quote from: elvikun on May 04, 2012, 08:06:50 PM ---Oh, I see. Retroactive justice on men is invalid, but women should make up for what they didn't have to do troughout the history.
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You have noticed it's a "jest" reaction, right? If women should make up for the time they weren't forced into army, then men should... Get it? I hope so Mr. Menaresoopressed :P
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No, that is a flawed logic. After all I am not proposing that women make up for anything happening in the past. Only take upon themselves the same burdens that men of this generation have, no more, no less.
--- Quote ---You seem to forget that the mother is the keeper of the breasts, and since its best for the baby to breastfeed, your (men) kinda useless the first (six) couple of months. Besides, after going through being pregnant for 6 months, you cant just claim your rights. All you (men) did, was to have a fucking nice time. We have to do the hard works. Pregnancy, labor, having a new child, new life. Shouldnt the mother be given some time to adjust to it?
Unless your woman is totally comfortable with it, you should just wait a little while, give her a couple of months to get tired being home, then you can do your duties. And I talk of experience....
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So what are you getting at? That since women have the hardest time in the process of creating offspring, the males shouldn't get paternal leave so they can assist in order to ease the burden? Ok, got it, apparently females want to deal with it alone as long as they have the monopoly on paternal leave.
kadatherion:
--- Quote from: Ixarku on May 05, 2012, 03:04:29 AM ---Yeah, that's a good one. I don't get why the Japanese think that crooked or otherwise imperfect teeth are attractive. I definitely don't think they are.
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Perception, maybe? Japanese - especially females - tend to have pretty fucked up teeth on average (too prominent upper arch among other - from our point of view - imperfections), so they are used to it. In all honesty, when you stumble upon a really pretty Japanese, she's really pretty, but usually they are among the least attractive in the world, even those supposed to be the hot ones. Thousands of years of island isolation and the resulting lack of genetic variety lead to things like that.
Ixarku:
--- Quote from: kadatherion on May 05, 2012, 09:06:39 AM ---Perception, maybe? Japanese - especially females - tend to have pretty fucked up teeth on average (too prominent upper arch among other - from our point of view - imperfections), so they are used to it. In all honesty, when you stumble upon a really pretty Japanese, she's really pretty, but usually they are among the least attractive in the world, even those supposed to be the hot ones. Thousands of years of island isolation and the resulting lack of genetic variety lead to things like that.
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I've noticed that every once in a while I'll see a pic of an exceptionally beautiful female celebrity, and then when I look up information on her, it turns out that she's a mix of several different ethnic identities. It's part of the reason why I chuckle at the racist groups who clamor for something as ludicrous as maintaining racial purity. Makes me think, "Sure, why don't you racist folks go into isolation somewhere and interbreed for a few generations, and let's see how well your racial purity improves your genetic stock over time."
AceHigh:
It will probably sound like I am a racist, but I can't help but feel that certain races are just not attractive to me. Although I agree that for example mulatto looks usually prettier than pure black chick, although even then I find caucasians more attractive.
While I agree that interbreeding is not a preferable outcome for the humanity's genetic pool, I wouldn't condemn people that just follow their aesthetic sense if they prefer to breed with their own ethnic group.
Ixarku:
--- Quote from: AceHigh on May 05, 2012, 12:52:27 PM ---It will probably sound like I am a racist, but I can't help but feel that certain races are just not attractive to me. Although I agree that for example mulatto looks usually prettier than pure black chick, although even then I find caucasians more attractive.
While I agree that interbreeding is not a preferable outcome for the humanity's genetic pool, I wouldn't condemn people that just follow their aesthetic sense if they prefer to breed with their own ethnic group.
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It's not racist to be physically attracted or not to certain physical characteristics. We're men, we're hardwired to pick up on visual cues, after all. I'm not particularly attracted to certain characteristics more commonly seen on black women -- for instance, I don't like the wide, flat nose with large nostrils, certain hair styles (braids, corn rows), women with gigantic butts or who are too fat. I've seen a few black women who I think are attractive but a great many just don't do it for me.
I do think it's silly and wrong to make moral judgements about a person based on their appearance -- this where it can cross the line into racism. A black women is no less of a person just because I don't find her physically attractive. So as far as the thing about people following an aesthetic preference to interbreed with their own ethnic group, if it's a decision based on what a person finds attractive, I don't have a problem with it. But if it's a decision based on whether someone thinks it's wrong to interbreed with other races because they are inferior for reasons x, y, and z, then I'd have to slap a swastika on their forehead.
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