The main thing trying to get through is this. If you don't want stalkers, don't start a post with "I'm pretty much hot." Leave it out. It's up there with race. It doesnt matter on a forum. It really doesnt. No one here gives a shit what you look like. Face it.
And you're the one now who can't let go. We didn't ask you to give us a novel about why you feel this way. That's more that you felt you needed to say. No one here pressed you for that info. Look at my last post again. There was no hostility at all in it. None. Just the hostility you put on there.
No one asks anyone else, because we don't sit around claiming these things. We're fairly open overall, sharing pictures and what have you. You feel paranoid and don't want to share pictures? That's fine. But don't feed your own paranoia. Posting stuff like the "I'm sexy and I know it," makes people curious. Leave that shit out and we couldn't care less. The curiosity isnt there until you put it there, then of course people will be skeptical.