Ok, I suppose some of you are going o school at the moment ( uni do not count for purposes of this question) - is the only thing you have to do to get a diploma is to show up for graduation?
I do get a feeling that these students I have right now got their diplomas just for showing up at graduation.
I do not get how can people be so clueless and think its mean to get a lower grade for submitting their paper after the submission time. AND I was generous I even extended submission time by week AND told them that they will get lower grade if they will miss this second date. I even reminded then to submit their papers few times and the excuse they came up with is - oh I forgot, maybe will submit it later if I have a time for it.....morrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrons
Don't stress over it. Work like how you do your job. You, of all people, I respect the most. Educators are less respected in this day and age. Just do what you need to do and if they don't want to work hard for their future, then give them the grade they earned. Don't over think it, don't be soft at heart. If they ask "why" then tell them what they need to hear. 
I guess I have to be more strict, but I do not want to fail them, this is one of the last things they have to do to get diploma. But I guess, there is no problems if they have a barely positive mark.
Ok, I suppose some of you are going o school at the moment ( uni do not count for purposes of this question) - is the only thing you have to do to get a diploma is to show up for graduation?
I do get a feeling that these students I have right now got their diplomas just for showing up at graduation.
I do not get how can people be so clueless and think its mean to get a lower grade for submitting their paper after the submission time. AND I was generous I even extended submission time by week AND told them that they will get lower grade if they will miss this second date. I even reminded then to submit their papers few times and the excuse they came up with is - oh I forgot, maybe will submit it later if I have a time for it.....morrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrons
They do that because they don't respect you so they think they can blow you off and just walk all over you. It's a core personality thing that people instinctively see and prey upon.
You'll notice how some classes can have the same students and be like a wild circus but then you put a different teacher in there and suddenly it's like they fear for their lives and are perfectly behaved model students. It's the persona you give off and your presence. If you have a weak demeanor they'll just trample all over you.
Be an alpha. Make examples of anyone that steps out of line. You can joke around and be a little carefree but you also have to be stern, serious, and strict. You can't take any shit. Get advice from other teachers you know do well. In the end it's all about how the students perceive you.
It might help you to take some cognitive/social psychology and/or maybe something for public speaking.
I do not think that its a problem with just me. I have noticed, that they do not do what they are supposed to do a lot and if they do something its not as good as it should be. I met few other students last year and saw what they did for a class and I was horrified to see that something like that was approved by teachers.....
I think in this case some of the fault could be lied on teacher before me as I understand she did nothing if they did not do what they were supposed to. Oh and almost half of the class has been expelled before I even met them. But then again, it is my fault as well. I am new at this and I do not know all that I should to do.
Harpy, you have your own life. Why worry about people who don't give a flying fuck about their future? These young kids are irresponsible - they are relaying on their parents or those who feed them and give them shelter. This is what's so wrong about this society. The only wise ones are the ones who work hard for their future.
Has anyone looked into that fucking stupid teen who screwed her life up with that fake marijuana? As much as I feel sorry for her, she's the one who decided to ass fuck her life with doing something illegal. Hope she learned her lesson and recovers well and quit doing stupid shit.
In reality, if you are OK with the way you are living - then no problem. Live the way you are living. This applies to those young teens.
You don't have to be strict. Just give them the credit they worked or didn't work hard for. Simple as that. Don't round up grades or give passes to those who don't work hard. I mean, this is just my pure opinion. Why are you stressing over people who don't give a shit about their grades? Don't stress it. Your life is more important than anyone else. Or so I have it as a rule of thumb. And then again, enjoy life. Like ... watch anime!

Anyone watched Jormungand lately? I'm re-watching it while scramming for photos. Got like 2K+ on my Feeds to look into. I piled that shit very high.