^ Gotta go after what you want to get it, that has always been my philosphy.
< You just have to really start to enjoy life again, and really show it. There is nothing wrong with putting yourself out there, it is the best thing you can do for yourself, and it is what people find attractive in you. You can't care what people think of you, because if you worry about things like that, you won't be being yourself. You will find someone else, someone more suited for you, just gotta keep active and try to have as much fun as humanly possible and girls will just fall in your lap (in more than one sense).
V What do you do to attract the opposite sex (or same sex)?