^ first one is always herded
< to loss someone is more painful then just seeing others suffer form a loss, well if only you dont combine your own pain and see others suffer for the same loss, that its the best and the deepest suffering one can get..ha ha, if only you just dont feel that others are idiots and just dont know the person and why do they even try to think that they are in pain, oh, but what ever, I find that if the old/sick person die there is no reason to suffer and so on, you do think about a person but yourself and thats pure shit, pity your self but dont make others pity you looking at how you pity yourself accidental death is a different case - then there really is a reason to mourn
v what you think about pitying oneself after beloved ones death?