Did I start this? O___O
Anyway, Nodame, what's wrong? I can't tell if your post was sarcastic or serious, but I'm sure no one meant to offend you if they did. Also, I went through this thread and I saw a lot of stuff I disagree with. First off Elvi, I can't speak for any other guy, but I'd definitely like a woman who was smarter and funnier than me. Any guy who would turn that down would have to be fairly full of himself, and/or arrogant—which ultimately works in favour of the woman, as she doesn't have to deal with someone like that.
Second, people say that they don't like being called cute, or hot, but if the person giving the compliment is actually speaking the truth, why not just be happy about it? I said that every woman I've seen in this thread so far had been cute, and that was my honest opinion. If I had something bad to say I would have just not posted.
Third, IMO, maturity is not "Maturity, adulthood = Getting better at lying and pretending", but rather responsibility and experience. If you are a responsible person who learns from your mistakes, in my eyes you are mature.
Lastly, if you are going to post a picture of yourself you shouldn't not expect people to say bad things. Some people are brutally honest, and when posting a picture in a thread like this you are p. much asking to be judged. I posted my picture for the sole fact that Tyler asked me to, and I was made fun of. I didn't really care though, because it's the internet and I expected something like that to happen.
Alright. I've said all that I wanted to say. Feel free to rebuttal. /End rant