Well I seem to be having this big problem/dilemma/issue or whatever you want to call it. Next week is Halloween (which is not the problem as it's my favorite holiday) and my mother is getting remarried and I'm the maid of honor, the problem with this is, I CAN'T stand the guy she's marrying. At thanksgiving two years ago I screamed for the whole family to hear that I hated him. He was agruing with me about something and I just yelled it back at him.
Felt damn good too.
Let me tell you a little about this asshole. Everything that comes out of his mouth is foul, he can't utter a single sentence with out the word fuck in it at least 7 times. Every other sentence he utters is an insult about my mother whether she's not around or is, there in which case he's saying it to her face. He held up a hunting knife to my sisters throat and told her her was going to cut her open with it just because she stuck her tongue out at him. He banned me from my mom's house because she lent me some money and then threw my things, that were still there until I found a bigger place, out into the street. And he once called the cops on me just because I walked in front of the house (on the opposite side) of the street!
Of course my mom just things all these things are either jokes or didn't happen.
I'm not the only one, pretty much my entire family hates this guy and has pretty much managed to alienate my mom from everyone.
I would love not to go but it's my mom. And even though she and I haven't always gotten along, she's still mom.
I'm probably going to have to get really wasted to make it through that night.
I em very sorry that you have such a big problem....I had a similar problem with my dad.My parents are separated like 13 years ago..The last few years when they were together they would fight, and my dad would throw stuff around the house,then he lost his job and it got worse.... my mum,sister and me went away from him.(In that time I was like 12 or 13 year old)..rent an apartment in next town...after we went away then the prank calls started and harassment (slashing tires on my mums car).And that stooped in a few months.
I use to visit him and my grandma a few times a month ,helped him around the house and so.
He is a heavy bear drinker and smoker so he use all the money for that.When we went from him he didn't support us financially,even didn't buy me and books for school. 2 years ago he got a gf.a very nice woman how worked in my elementarily school and she straitened him up a bid.
Nowadays relationship with my dad, lol well we don't have one...A year and a few months ago he wanted to sell some land behind the house where he lives (the house and the land was 50% mine because my mother give it to me) so we had a fallout.In the end he sold it.He told me if i don't sign the contract for the sell that he has no son.That was the "drop that spilled water" . I signed the selling contract and told him "Decide what do you want, the money from the land, or to have a son?"So what do you think what he done?
Got the money from the sell.And from that time i didnt see him except from my grandmas funeral..
Some times i miss him but then i remember what did he all do so...it was hard to me for not having a real father.
Nowadays my mum lives with me, (my sister got married) i have lots a good friends and a wonderful gf whom i love and i hope to marry some day,got my own apartment and a great job....but no car yet...

If you come this far, i thank you for reading it all...hope my English is ok..
