Author Topic: The General Chit Chat Thread (Read 1540500 times)

ETL19 · « **Reply #2860 on:** December 29, 2007, 01:06:39 PM »

i dunno honestly what they would say...

i think they would wanna know if i was at least love the girl. also that it wasn't just a result of a one night stand or something. i also think they'd want me to be married first as well. my dad probably wouldn't say anything to me but my mom would.

NaRu · « **Reply #2861 on:** December 30, 2007, 04:51:53 AM »

Quote from: Peccato on December 29, 2007, 05:41:48 AM

My mom was very supportive. She helped me make my appointments and stuff. But my husband supported me. He paid for any out of pocket expenses and even bought groceries to have at my mom's house. Mind you he was only 17 when I got pregnant. It's a lot harder for my friends who have kids and are single. I consider myself very lucky. I haven't ever had to get a job, so I have got to spend all my time with my kids. Even older women with children don't very often get that luxury.

My mom let me make all my own decisions which was nice. That and she totally adores my husband. She knew he would do the right thing and be responsible. He helps her out even now when she needs money or something.

Sometimes I bitch and stuff, but I really do know how great I have it. Everyone needs to vent every now and again. ^.^

you are very lucky..80% of the time the guy would just leave and run from responability

Transparent · « **Reply #2862 on:** December 30, 2007, 05:39:47 PM »

im buying an xbox 360 today. cant wait

AcidMonkey · « **Reply #2863 on:** December 30, 2007, 09:55:37 PM »

Quote from: Peccato on December 29, 2007, 04:04:13 AM

I didn't decide to have a child at 15, I decided to keep her.

You have no idea how much I respect you for that.

Rhapsody · « **Reply #2864 on:** December 31, 2007, 01:02:25 AM »

Keeping a child is a big decision and responsibility...th en again any girl who think she is old enough to spead her legs and have unprotected sex or sex with protection (we all heard the condom broke excuse or i was on the pill but still got pregnant) should take responsibility for her actions. Getting an abortion is the easy way out of things and some girls get more then one with no regret. Some decide to have the baby abd give them up...that in my opinion is also the easy way out and quite selfish even if the girl think she is helping another couple to have a child. You give your child away then you get to go out and resume your life and party like before to me that spells selfish! Then they are the ones who dump the kids on their parents and thinks it's ok. Like their parents have nothing better to do after trying to raise their own kids. So yeah we who chose to keep our children and raise them as best we can and take the time to care and cherish them do deserve respect because it's a hell of a job. It's full of joy and sorrow, highs and lows but worth every seccond!

Peccato · « **Reply #2865 on:** December 31, 2007, 02:35:17 AM »

Very much agreed.

I always hated when people asked me my age. As soon as I would tell them you could instantly see that they felt sorry for me. It always pissed me off. I didn't need anyone to feel sorry for me. I was doing great. Now that I am older I don't get it nearly as much, which is so much nicer. People also always assumed that my mom was taking care of my child for me. She didn't even get to babysit until she was two years old.

Even now I am better off than I ever was. I don't go without anything like I did as a kid. I may have gotten lucky with the person I am with, but he got lucky with me as well. Not many young girls can handle what I have.

Rhapsody · « **Reply #2866 on:** January 02, 2008, 02:41:30 AM »

Dead leaves is fucked up

Xanthic · « **Reply #2867 on:** January 02, 2008, 02:45:04 AM »

You just made me decide to dl it now and give it a watch.

Rhapsody · « **Reply #2868 on:** January 02, 2008, 02:54:37 AM »

I am sure you will enjoy it, i did but at the same time i was like woah man this is fucked up, but it still has a few laugh out loud moments

koolabsol · « **Reply #2869 on:** January 02, 2008, 03:34:44 AM »

Eh...what's up dudes?

NaRu · « **Reply #2870 on:** January 02, 2008, 10:44:31 PM »

Back from busy life..now my real vacation starts

Peccato · « **Reply #2871 on:** January 03, 2008, 12:20:49 AM »

I had a great New Years, I hope everyone else did too.

Oh, and when I went to the bar on Saturday night I got the bartenders number. She was all like, "you guys should really call me sometime." So exciting.

koolabsol · « **Reply #2872 on:** January 03, 2008, 02:20:17 AM »

NaRu · « **Reply #2873 on:** January 03, 2008, 02:42:47 AM »

Quote from: Peccato on January 03, 2008, 12:20:49 AM

I had a great New Years, I hope everyone else did too.

Oh, and when I went to the bar on Saturday night I got the bartenders number. She was all like, "you guys should really call me sometime." So exciting.

being friends with a bartender has alot of positive awards

Peccato · « **Reply #2874 on:** January 03, 2008, 03:22:24 AM »

Well, we decided to try and go since my husband had been there before. It is this really tiny hole in the wall biker bar. They had 2 pool tables the bar and a small stage, that's it. When we walked in, the bartender just happened to be a girl that my husband went to school with. So we talked and flirted with her all night. She played my husband a couple games of pool. Then she gave us her number so we could hang out again. She was really cute too, she even shared some of her moonshine with me.

psyren · « **Reply #2875 on:** January 03, 2008, 03:36:15 AM »

*cough* threesome *cough* <__<

Peccato · « **Reply #2876 on:** January 03, 2008, 03:40:05 AM »

You gotta do a little something every now and again to spice things up. ^.~

NaRu · « **Reply #2877 on:** January 03, 2008, 03:49:35 AM »

Quote from: psychiclord on January 03, 2008, 03:36:15 AM

*cough* threesome *cough* <__<

that alone can fix 90% of all relationships

koolabsol · « **Reply #2878 on:** January 03, 2008, 03:56:24 AM »

I've heard they only complicate things. It's like bringing another person into the relationship and i'd have trouble picking one. . .

Peccato · « **Reply #2879 on:** January 03, 2008, 04:00:44 AM »

Sex doesn't mean you have to love the person. It's kind of like bringing in toys or something like that. There is no way either one of us would cheat even if we could get away with it. That and he can't do certain things for me that girls can. We are both into it, not just one of us trying to please the other by doing something that makes us uncomfortable.

What can I say, he likes chicks and I like chicks so why the hell not?