Author Topic: The General Chit Chat Thread (Read 1540697 times)

daley · « **Reply #3380 on:** January 25, 2008, 04:11:23 AM »

Oyasumi Pec-chan

Peccato · « **Reply #3381 on:** January 25, 2008, 06:34:12 PM »

Why do men say women like drama? I swear, my life is a soap opera at the moment. None of it is any of my doing either, it's crazy. I am surprised I haven't shot him or smothered him in his sleep yet.

He actually texted me while I was at school. It wasn't normal, it was crazy. I was like where the hell do you come up with this crazy shit. I talked to one of OUR male friends in confidence that he wouldn't say anything (I was sooooo wrong). The conversation maybe lasted 2 minutes, and it was just me telling him to look out for my husband because I do love him and want to make it work. My husband really looks up to this friend and we have known him for a very long time, so I just wanted to tell him not to encourage him in the wrong way. So the text I get says "don't be fucking my friends". WTF? It was so crazy then he told me I was being all secretive and shit. I don't even delete old text message or anything unless it gets full.

I was considering taking a friend of ours who is going through a divorce to the strip club. We all have the same friends so when everyone goes out his ex is always there too. I figured we were kind of in the same boat. So I wanted to see if he wanted to go out with someone different and not have to watch the woman he still loves try to pick up other guys. I can't fucking do that now, since if I did, it would automatically be assumed that I am trying to fuck him.

My life is crazy. My husband is being a complete juvenile. Bleh.

beezer08 · « **Reply #3382 on:** January 25, 2008, 06:51:16 PM »

Quote from: Peccato on January 25, 2008, 06:34:12 PM

Why do men say women like drama? I swear, my life is a soap opera at the moment. None of it is any of my doing either, it's crazy. I am surprised I haven't shot him or smothered him in his sleep yet.

The stereotype is that women love to blow minor things out of proportion by being unreasonable and sometimes obnoxious....by being a drama queen. In my experience women do this more than men do....but it isn't very often on either side. First, you should calm yourself down. This has been another episode of human psychology with beez.

Hope everything gets better.

Peccato · « **Reply #3383 on:** January 25, 2008, 06:52:00 PM »

Quote from: beezer08 on January 25, 2008, 06:51:16 PM

Quote from: Peccato on January 25, 2008, 06:34:12 PM
Why do men say women like drama? I swear, my life is a soap opera at the moment. None of it is any of my doing either, it's crazy. I am surprised I haven't shot him or smothered him in his sleep yet.

The stereotype is that women love to blow minor things out of proportion by being unreasonable and sometimes obnoxious....by being a drama queen. In my experience women do this more than men do....but it isn't very often on either side. First, you should calm yourself down. This has been another episode of human psychology with beez.

See above^ I explained.

beezer08 · « **Reply #3384 on:** January 25, 2008, 06:57:59 PM »

OK scratch what I said, your husband is being an insecure ass and you weren't being a drama queen. Time for good talk with the hubby to work shit out.

Peccato · « **Reply #3385 on:** January 25, 2008, 07:09:20 PM »

Would have done that already, but he thinks I am just bitching when I try to say anything. It's fucking irritating.

Xanthic · « **Reply #3386 on:** January 25, 2008, 07:14:36 PM »

Just ignore him until he stops acting like a douche.

Peccato · « **Reply #3387 on:** January 25, 2008, 07:19:19 PM »

That's what I have been trying to do. It just gets irritating when he does stuff like that and then tells me not to start shit. O.o It's like he is waiting for me to sleep with someone so he can justify doing the same. It's weird, and so wrong.

aghstnashell · « **Reply #3388 on:** January 25, 2008, 08:53:57 PM »

Quote from: Peccato on January 25, 2008, 07:19:19 PM

That's what I have been trying to do. It just gets irritating when he does stuff like that and then tells me not to start shit. O.o It's like he is waiting for me to sleep with someone so he can justify doing the same. It's weird, and so wrong.

That just sounds wierd...
Seems to me like he is being an asshole (takes one to know one). Just because you want to talk doesn't mean that you are bitching at him.

Peccato · « **Reply #3389 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:11:00 PM »

He is being a bitch, but mostly because he doesn't "know what he wants". It took me a long time to figure out what I wanted out of my life too, I just did it introspectively. He on the other hand is freaking out and taking his insecurities out on me. He doesn't think I need him anymore, but what he doesn't realize is that I need him just as much but in a different way. It sucks, but I think he will eventually realize what is really going on. I can't help but hang in there.

AkumaisDaGr8est · « **Reply #3390 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:12:42 PM »

<__<

::young couple going thru drama::

* AkumaisDaGr8est smells trouble

Peccato · « **Reply #3391 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:14:06 PM »

Quote from: AkumaisDaGr8est on January 25, 2008, 09:12:42 PM

<__<

::young couple going thru drama::
* AkumaisDaGr8est smells trouble

Mind you, it's all manufactured man drama. I don't even know any chicks that get like he does.

aghstnashell · « **Reply #3392 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:14:52 PM »

Quote from: AkumaisDaGr8est on January 25, 2008, 09:12:42 PM

* AkumaisDaGr8est smells trouble

What exactly does that smell like?

Peccato · « **Reply #3393 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:16:47 PM »

Quote from: aghstnashell on January 25, 2008, 09:14:52 PM

Quote from: AkumaisDaGr8est on January 25, 2008, 09:12:42 PM
* AkumaisDaGr8est smells trouble
What exactly does that smell like?

I can think of a few things. ^.~

AkumaisDaGr8est · « **Reply #3394 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:20:19 PM »

Quote from: Peccato on January 25, 2008, 09:14:06 PM

Quote from: AkumaisDaGr8est on January 25, 2008, 09:12:42 PM
<__<

::young couple going thru drama::
* AkumaisDaGr8est smells trouble
Mind you, it's all manufactured man drama. I don't even know any chicks that get like he does.

more tight than a female now hold on....that has to be breaking a man law

aghstnashell · « **Reply #3395 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:21:33 PM »

Quote from: AkumaisDaGr8est on January 25, 2008, 09:20:19 PM

Quote from: Peccato on January 25, 2008, 09:14:06 PM
Quote from: AkumaisDaGr8est on January 25, 2008, 09:12:42 PM
<__<

::young couple going thru drama::
* AkumaisDaGr8est smells trouble
Mind you, it's all manufactured man drama. I don't even know any chicks that get like he does.

more tight than a female now hold on....that has to be breaking a man law

Does he put fruit and/or fruit juice in his beer?

Peccato · « **Reply #3396 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:23:41 PM »

Quote from: AkumaisDaGr8est on January 25, 2008, 09:20:19 PM

Quote from: Peccato on January 25, 2008, 09:14:06 PM
Quote from: AkumaisDaGr8est on January 25, 2008, 09:12:42 PM
<__<

::young couple going thru drama::
* AkumaisDaGr8est smells trouble
Mind you, it's all manufactured man drama. I don't even know any chicks that get like he does.

more tight than a female now hold on....that has to be breaking a man law

Don't think I am playing, I didn't start any of this crazy shit. I am just along for the ride on this one. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells to avoid spooking him. That way he doesn't have a meltdown or something. I wish I had a prescription to Valium to slip into his food so he would calm the fuck down.

AkumaisDaGr8est · « **Reply #3397 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:25:37 PM »

its not like you cant >__>

and as of right now i can only see 3 conclusions from your situation

first lets assume worst scenario: he doesn't love you anymore and wants to find a reason to split up

second scenario: he's looking for an opportunity for you to fuck up so he can get some extra........(you get the idea)

or third: you married a bitch

most likely its a lot of 3 and a tad of 2

Peccato · « **Reply #3398 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:32:33 PM »

I already told him I don't care if he goes and fucks some bitches. That's all they are. They don't even compare to me. As long as he uses protection and gets tested, I don't really care about one night stands.

AkumaisDaGr8est · « **Reply #3399 on:** January 25, 2008, 09:34:57 PM »

Quote from: Peccato on January 25, 2008, 09:32:33 PM

I already told him I don't care if he goes and fucks some bitches. That's all they are. They don't even compare to me. As long as he uses protection and gets tested, I don't really care about one night stands.

you really don't understand Peccato...your atitude leads to #1 simply because...and excuse me if this sounds fucked up, but then you just end up being another bitch he fucks.....with kids O.O!!!!!!