Just fucking great i have to go to my father's for dinner which i totally forgot about and i haveapissed off stepmother whosays anever call and apparently i had told her the last time we spoke that i would comfirm my presense, which i obviously did not so i will hear about it for sure when i get there. My all day of of baking daughnutsis now ruined (not that the first batch was a succes but my son assures me they are good...i think he's trying to not hurt my feelings because damn they don't look like they do in the picture) and i was to make some braided buns too but i guess i won't be doing that anymore! Fucking holidays are only good for extra days off. Why the hell do we feel obligated to go see family!? I tell you why, because you get the phone calls making you feel guilty if you don't show up and even if you go you get shit for not going often enough and not calling. It's bitchin' either fucking way!
~My rant is now over 
why do you feel obliged to do anything?.....do you know how many relatives that my dad cant stand and vice cersa (this really doesn't apply to moms....she keeps her ignorance at a ful minimum)
i havent seen cousins in years because of arguments over the stupidest things.
if i remember correctly, you actually have a legitamite reason to be mad at ya family (though its not my business to share why)
you can just give the ultimatum, if i hear this or act like that then you can just catch some 'phuckit' and ay Go fuck yaself....it may be difficult for you, but i see it all time.